Hey. I’m Oliver, a 19 year old gap year student/intern/part time tutor in the London area.

SFW (about me)

Appearance wise: I’m 5’8 and have long-ish dark brown hair, pretty skinny (runners body/slow metabolism lol). I’m more than happy to exchange pictures when we’ve both verified each other. Alternatively you could visit my ad on the verified personals page (subtle plug lol)  where I have a picture.

I have a real mix of hobbies and honestly they switch a lot in preference depending on how I’m feeling or the season. These include chess, both listening and playing to piano/classical music, going to shows (I recently went to a “Rest is History” live show and I’m going to the one in April), reading (both nonfiction and fiction) and running. I have no idea if I sound like a total extrovert or introvert through these choices, but I would say I’m 70% introvert and 30% extrovert. I’m currently on a gap year interning at a policy research company as well as volunteering to tutor maths to kids at the weekends. I also plan on going travelling throughout Europe/West Asia in the summer budget permitting. 

Finally, I’m going to study PPE this coming October, so I’m more than happy to discuss anything philosophical or otherworldly with you if that’s what you’re into. 

NSFW preferences (but not needs)

Regarding online “femdom” dynamics, I’d say I’m somewhat experienced (circa 5 months), and have a degree of experience playing online, although I recognise that online play is entirely different to in person play. 

Kinks wise, I think I’m mainly in favour of light control in regard to pleasure (this is partially due to my online only experience thus far) and friendly teasing. I love it when even in a casual conversation, there’s the slight tease of being reminded that you’re in control to an extent of my bodily autonomy. 

Some things I’d like (but aren’t a certain kink) to explore are light feminisation, anal play and light humiliation (such as making lighthearted fun of my body or something I've said). . If both of us enjoy it then I’m more than willing to go further in terms of these. It’s just about both of us remaining safe and consensual at all times. 

About you:

I really want to stress that I’m looking for a relationship first and domme second. I’ve found to an extent that kink alone can only take a relationship so far, which is why I’m stressing the relationship aspect and domme stuff second. Relationship wise, I generally want it to be a normal 50/50 relationship where we both help and support one another in our goals. To summarise, I think that a healthy relationship is necessary for the femdom stuff, but not the contrapositive.

I think my age limit is probably 18-30, just in the interests of relating to one another in our life experiences although obviously I’m willing to budge slightly if we connect well with one another.

Location wise, I’m open to all locations and would definitely be willing to relocate after my studies, it just makes it easier to communicate online when we’re in relatively closer timezones, and in the SouthEast area if it is in person. 

Personality wise: I would love someone that wants to do good in the world (amid all the current turmoil) , and ideally leave the world in a better place than they found it). I hope you enjoyed reading this personal and look forward to connecting with you :