Hi, I'm a submissive who loves a wide range of kinks and turn ons but no single kink is as important to me as having a strong bond with my Domme and being the standard of submissive she deserves, being good enough at serving her that shes proud to call me hers and enjoys my company. I love surrendering control and find a deep sense of satisfaction in making others happy, (might have a huge praise kink too), it'd be nice to have a meaningful connection, something wholesome and affectionate as well as all the kinky mischief.
I'm looking for a woman who enjoys being dominant and in control in Blackpool or nearby, (I'm open to a little further away for the right person). I can't host for overt sexual play but potentially could if we seemed like any other couple to family and friends. I'm hoping to find someone who loves sissification and cuckolding and wants a boyfriend she can sissify and who'll accept her meeting bulls for pleasure as our norm to get to know and build a meaningful and wholesome D/s relationship with.

Something I think is often overlooked is aftercare, we're all just human and need to be looking after each others wellbeing, Dommes&subs aren't just for Christmas, they're for life! I'd love to be able to have a strong connection with a Domme like any other relationship type and be able to talk about normal things and support each other. I'm hoping to find a partner in crime who just happens to love being dominant and enjoys similar kinks to grow and explore with, not some sort of kink dispenser. All the kinky mischief in the world is worth nothing if you don't enjoy spending time with who you're submitting to and really want to give them your all.

I'm really curious about sissy play, cuckolding, chastity and puppy play! I've always loved feeling emasculated, especially with frilly pink sissy outfits! I love ultra girly styles, lots of pretty pink lace, frills, bows, ruffles, and ribbons! The sort of look that blatantly screams sissified! Cuckolding and the thought of sharing someone I care about with others is just immensely exciting... knowing that she can have any one she wants and that after her fun I'm the one she chooses to go back to because no matter how great the sex is, I make her heart happy. Chastity can be such an amazing tease and I love how much more submissive I tend to feel when I've been locked a while. Puppy play I love for how playful and affectionate it can feel, dogs are so energetic and loving, it can be really fun emulating that energy as a sub. I love that it can be totally innocent and affectionate or utterly filthy and deviant depending on the mood. There are lots of other things I enjoy but they're a few of the big ones that I find the most fulfilling, something of an insight into what makes me tick.

I'm very curious about becoming a sissy maid, maid dresses look so cute! Doing someones housework seems like a fair trade in exchange for a safe place to dress up and spend time practicing my sissy skills too but I'll take any excuse to wear a frilly sissy dress and sexy heels!

I've always felt a strong affinity for being effeminate, it just feels right to be girly and emasculated its always been a huge secret though, nobody close to me has any idea. I've loved sissification since I first started experimenting with crossdressing and reading sissy stories online in my teens. I've never really had the privacy to be openly sissy as much as I'd like to have had but I've dabbled with it on and off over the years in secret. I've always wanted to go further with exploring sissification but I feel like I need a someone to help guide me and push me out of my comfort zone to really embrace sissification.

As a male I'm not attracted to men but as a sissy I love the idea of 'forced bi' and having to serve men as part of being a sissy (particularly in a cuckolding dynamic). My brain tells me I'm straight and only attracted to femininity but sexually I love the humiliation of being sissified and 'forced' to pleasure men until it feels totally normal and I have no inhibitions about it.
I love the idea of being 'converted' (I think I've already done a pretty good job of that myself in a mental sense) into a pretty pink panty loving sissy and having all doubts, resistance, and any sense of masculinity purged from my mind. Sissy becoming my default sense of self to fully embrace my sissy nature and striving to be the best sissy I can be, I've always hidden this part of myself and its time to let it flourish.

I have a small selection of toys and sissy panties, a pup hood, collar & leash, plug tail, butt plugs, lips gag, dildo, and chastity cage. I'm happy to share photos privately.

Vanilla life:

I'm a pretty friendly and down to earth guy, I have a decent job, I work hard and want to achieve my goals and be successful in life. Family and friends are important to me, the past few years have been quite turbulent and challenging, I lost family during the pandemic which sort of gives you a new perspective of what really matters in life. I'm passionate about wildlife and nature particularly in regard to conservation, I'm a fairly outdoorsy sort of person and usually happiest walking along a beach somewhere or in the fells. I love gardening and cooking, its really satisfying cooking with things you've grown yourself! I like photography, I'd love to try paddleboarding, I love pets, particularly dogs, I used to have a few... they're just big bundles of fluff, affection, and mischief... and if I'm honest I'm running out of ideas but if you're still reading and think we'd get on I'd love to hear from you!

If it scores me any bonus points I make a pretty good cup of tea!