Well hello there handsome!

I’m Kai, 32, currently living in central Florida, African American, 1.63 m/ 5’ 4” tall, and chubby. I have slightly broad shoulders and a rather large bust. My face is on the rounder side, high cheekbones and I've been told I have nice eyes (brown) and a nice smile. Don’t let the username fool you, I’m not a findomme. It’s simply a reference to one of my tattoos.

What you'll be worshipping ;)

NO online only session, poly relationship or play partner. I prefer monogamous in person long term relationships. If you are only looking to get off there are plenty of lovely ladies here who can help you with that. You will belong to me and only me.

A little about myself

• Left leaning. Very important to be, especially now.
• I do not drink alcohol, smoke or participate in any recreational drugs. I do not mind those that drink responsibility and/or socially but smoking and drugs are deal breakers. I am NOT 420 friendly.
• I have a few artsy hobbies but I like doodling the most.
• I like anime (my fav is Yu Yu Hakusho) and play a few video games.
• I really enjoy Marvel, documentaries, horror movies and a wide spectrum of shows.
• I LOVE music, it keeps me sane.
• Though I don’t get to do it often, I do enjoy traveling, sometimes domestically but mostly internationally.

I'm quite nurturing and want to create a relaxing, safe and judgment free space for my partner. I have a lot of love to give and ultimately want to find the right person to share that with and shower with praise, compliments and positive affirmations. The vanilla connection is just as important to me. I'm very independent and do not need to be waited on hand and foot but physical touch, good communication and quality time are extremely important to me in a relationship.

What I'm looking for

I am currently looking for a broad shouldered masculine good boy, golden retriever type (not interested in femboys or feminization of any kind) who is looking for gentle femdom.

• Any level of experience is acceptable. I have a little experience myself but I’ve had enough disappointing encounters to know what I want, what I enjoy, what I have to offer and what my value is.
• My age preference is 27-42.
• I would prefer that you were taller than me, ideally 1.73 m/ 5' 8" or taller.
• No need to be super fit or hairless, just well groomed, comfortable in your own skin, std free, good hygiene, self care etc.
• "Dad bods" are always welcome. I do lean more towards men with larger builds because I have a broader build myself.

If you like cozy nights on the couch, star gazing, romantic weekend getaways, relaxing walks and just enjoying the company of someone you care about then we'll probably get along beautifully. If you're on the shy side that's okay. I love an easily flustered man. You must be local OR absolutely willing to travel at your own expense. I won't write you off if you aren't near Florida or not in the US but If we can only see each other for a day or two every six months or so it will not work out. I am flexible on traveling as well as long as I am not the only one putting in the effort.

Kinks

Body worship (receiving), oral worship (receiving), leashing and collaring, free use, bondage, edging, teasing, denial and post orgasm torture. I do enjoy PIV, while I'm not exclusively searching for hung men an average size, at the least, is preferred. I enjoy giving pleasure, and as long as you enjoy having pussy for every meal of the day you will be rewarded graciously. I have every intention of using you like a fuck toy and human dildo whose only purpose is to suck my clit and fill my pussy on demand.

My hard limits are pegging, chastity/cages, sph, cbt, cuckolds, humiliation, heavy degrading, public play, extreme pain, anything illegal, age play, ANY type of feminization/sissification, scat, urine, vomit and blood.

My ideal dynamic in the relationship would be to keep our business in the bedroom.

In other words: Are you looking for a genuine long term monogamous relationship and connection built on trust, communication and unconditional affection while receiving praise and head pats for being turned into a mindless, drooling, whimpering, cunnilingus loving, fuck toy 🥰? Then reach out!

Start your message with a introduction. If you do not introduce yourself properly I will not respond to you.

• Name/Nickname
• Age
• General Location
• Tell me a bit about yourself (hobbies/interest, anything you feel like sharing).
• Feel free to share your kinks for mutual and compatibility purposes.

I don't mind receiving (and sending) photos as mutual attraction is obviously important but keep it tasteful. I like a show off but we can get more into that once we get to know each other better 😉. Feel free to poke around in my post history!