About Me:

I have a knack for patiently taming compoopers and finding humor in everyday life - Think random, ‘IT Crowd’ scenarios that somehow make sense in my line of work. Life’s about growth, connection, and good laughs, and I’m usually up for meaningful chats and silly witticisms. Outside of knowing which buttons to press at work, I've embraced simplicity and little improvements. I rarely drink and always in moderation. I am also a non-smoker.

I enjoyed trying new things, like dancing to jazz or exploring creative hobbies like drawing or photography. Even though I am open to a lot of topics, my particular interests include psychology, tech, French things, DIY, film making and the odd video game (almost exclusively on a Steam Deck). Interested to hear about yours!

While I can be very work orientated, I am always willing to put time aside for those I value and appreciate when asked. I understand finding the perfect person and establishing a solid companionship will take time to build, but I am patient, and I hope you are too.

Appearance wise: The handsomest man on the land, out of the ordinary, the best of the best, the definition of beauty. On a serious note, I think I'm decent. I'm a cisgender man, 5ft 6, fairly slim with dark hair and hazel eyes behind specs. Friendly observers have regarded me someone who's kind, intelligent, decent, organised, diplomatic, genuinely nice and sincere - But please take all these for what they're worth.

Sexually, I am a late bloomer and would love to meet someone who is patient and trustworthy, but excited to try things with me. I like to think I am versatile and learn towards the gentle side, but capable of surprising once I’m fully comfortable.

Before reading on

I wanted to share that I lost a family member last year, and since then, I’ve been focused on work and supporting my mum. I sometimes feel like I’m missing out on meaningful connections. In the past, I’ve had a few challenges searching for my tribe, but I’m still hopeful. I learned the value of consistency and this is something that is important to me in my friendships.

I’d love to find someone who can help keep loneliness at bay and cultivate a supportive dynamic where we push each other to succeed and provide comfort when things don’t go as planned.

About you:

I'd be interested to hear from you if you are...

• A cisgender woman between the ages of 27-39 and located not too far away, (No men / teenagers).
• Are as nerdy and introspective as I am, who compliments a dry and silly sense of humor.
• Are kind, honest, patient and (emotionally) intelligent person.
• Want to share things you're passionate about, and I'm willing to share in return.
• Wear glasses, (I just think they're cute).
• Can be little taller or shorter than me, as long I can comfortably wrap my arms around you.
• Are okay taking the lead and can help make my days a little brighter and more exciting.
• Value and appreciates me as a person, and can make me feel less reserved and safe opening up to you.
• Genuinely interested in becoming friends with benedicts.

If Intersted:

I would appreciate reading a paragraph about why you think we're compatible. I've put a decent amount of detail about me, myself and I here, so I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a genuine effort in return. I know composing thoughts in writing is not always easy, but sending a mere greeting on it's own does not lead to inspiring conversations. Try your best.

Including a picture at your discretion can definitely help your chances if I find you attracted. Faceless pictures of myself are available on my other posts, but willing to exchange better(!) pictures with someone who's genuinely interested. You won't receive unsolicited images from me without your explicit request or approval.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 🦊