Hi Everyone! Let's start by telling you a little about myself:

• I try to live my life in a way that emphasizes kindness & empathy. And while I hope you can be a little mean (see below), I want to know that the person I'm with shares those values (read: no conservatives)
• I'm pretty nerdy. I love board games(wingspan, Gloomhaven, 7 Wonders), D&D, video games(league of legends, Balatro, Civ), scifi, and fantasy novels (The Name of the Wind is my fav!). I'd love if you had some of those interests too, but as long as you don't mind losing me to some video games occasionally we should be okay!
• I'm a HUGE fan of live music. I try to go to 1-2 shows a month if I can. I've seen Griff, Gorgon City, and From Autumn to Ashes recently and I saw Jamie XX this week!
• Since physical chemistry matters: I'm 32, 5'9, 200lb with brown hair and blue eyes. Here is a SFW one & a NSFW one. Hopefully you enjoy both

As far as kink goes, it's more about the vibes than any specific fetishes/kinks. I'm liable to enjoy anything with a serious power dynamic so if you're into it I'll likely be game to at least try it! I like having authority and control in my work life, but after I finish a long day there's a part of me that wants to let go and cede control to someone else. I'd love to finish up work and become your braindead cutie that you boss around 😊

That being said, I do have a few specific kinks that are fun like: anal, JOI, exhibitionism, humiliation/degradation, feminization, water sports/bathroom control, bondage/control, light pain (more thud pain than sharp pain), and tasks. But hopefully those are acts that we'd pursue in the scope of a larger dynamic.

While I'm open to a lot of different kinds of potential partners here are some things I'd LIKE (but don't need) to have:

• Someone near me in age - give or take 5 years
• Someone within driving distance - it doesn't have to be a 10 minute drive but I'd like to see each other occasionally
• Someone confident in what they want. I'm open to someone new to kink, but I'd like to be someone assured in their dominant desires.
• Someone who likes EDM or Emo music. This one is definitely more borderline, but it would be fun to go to shows we both like together!

Looking forward to hearing from you!