📖 I'm 37M, 6'0, with brown hair, glasses, and an average build. I work as a software engineer in Boston. My hobbies include reading (especially sci-fi), games, anime, visiting art museums, baking, and trying new food. I'm a lifelong learner, and also enjoy learning more about programming as a hobby. I'm on the shy side. You can see a (SFW) picture of me here.

🌎 Regarding location: I moved to Boston pre-pandemic for work. Since then, my work has become remote-friendly. I'm likely to relocate in the next year, with NYC as my current top prospect.

😍 I'm looking for someone kindhearted for a long-term, ideally monogamous relationship. Physical touch and words of affirmation go a long way for me; I love cuddling. The age range I'm looking for isn't strict, but you're probably close to my age or skewing younger (say, 28-40). You're healthy and take care of yourself. If you're located near me, that's awesome -- for the right person, though, I'm open to a long-distance relationship and travel.

⭐ My favorite kinks range from 'gentle' to 'not' and involve bondage, power exchange, and even some CNC. I love exploring pet play, and while I haven't been pegged yet, I'd love to try it. My main limits are anything involving blood or scat. My dream for a typical weeknight is something like this: we're snuggled up together on the couch or bed, watching your favorite show. You're probably in your most comfortable PJs; I'm not wearing anything but a collar, and I'm tied up.

🏠 In terms of life plans, I'm leaning against having kids. My dream is more of a DINK (with a dog?) lifestyle where we travel fairly often and eat all the food.

📬 Are you also looking for something long-term and IRL? Shoot me a chat request! I'd prefer to take things slowly and form a connection before we dive much into kink. But if there's any title you'd already like me to address you by, let me know and I will use it.