Hi! As my title suggests, I’m looking for someone who is on the more confident and assertive side but without the desire for a TPE FLR relationship. To give you a quick idea of what I’m interested in, let me give you some of my favourite fictional couples as examples who represent my ideal dynamic:

• Lucy and David from Cyberpunk Edgerunners (especially this fan art scene https://www.instagram.com/p/DBCUkelh4p_/?img_index=1)
• Zero Two and Hiro form DITF
• Ygritte and Jon Snow from ASOIAF/GOT

If you somehow managed to not hear about any of them, then my very short summary would be: The girl is usually the older and the more experienced, thus the more confident one, while the guy is usually the opposite. He too is confident and ambitious but still finds himself outmatched and flustered when it comes to having a banter with her.

About me

I think the best categorization would be a “sub leaning switch”.  I have always wondered whether I’m actually into this or if I’m just starved for attention and affection, as I have a hard time relating to most people’s wants and needs in these communities, however I always find myself attracted to women with assertive personalities, which reassures the validity of my interest in this.

Personality and style-wise, I think the “alternative” would be the best label. For most, I’m the quiet, all-black-wearing, metal-listening, sport-enthusiast, STEM-oriented person with cynical one-liners. For my friends, I’m the autistic, insufferable yet entertaining trash-talker who always finds himself in a one vs all confrontations with the entire friend group. For a potential girlfriend, I would aim to be someone she could proudly call her boyfriend and who would only fold to her when overwhelmed by her hugs and kisses.

Physically, I’m 177 cm tall and weigh around 82 kg. My physique is on the athletic side, as most of my workouts came from doing sports rather than lifting. I have pale skin and dark blonde hair.

My main hobby, I would say, is learning. I like perfecting my skill set and adding new ones to my repertoire, whether they are helping me in my profession or just party tricks to entertain myself and to impress others.

About you

Hopefully, you are someone from Europe who is interested in this tamer dynamic. You enjoy bantering, and teasing is one of your love languages. You are around my age or slightly older, but I’m loose on this one. You are looking for something serious and would be willing to meet IRL in the future if we get along. You are not a smoker, and you don’t do drugs. You are conscious about your health and fitness, and you take good care of them.

If you are interested, please shoot me a chat message. In your message, please include your age, where you are from, and a little introduction about yourself.