I tell you my most embarrassing fantasies, you belittle me for having them and, then, make me live them out in a way that is, perhaps, more than I bargained for.

I tell you how I like facesitting, you spend the evening with your pussy smooshing my face. I tell you about how I fantasize about licking someone's asshole, you fart in my mouth while having me lick yours. I tell you that I masturbate to scat porn, you hold my head between your legs and make me rub your clit while you use the toilet. And worse.

It isn't just about doing the thing, but about being looked down on for it, about having a partner be disgusted, about having to do it while you tell me I'm gross, about having to accept the consequences of having weird fantasies by having to experience them. I want to feel small and disgusting.

For me, the main interest is asking to do things that would be considered gross and taboo, being mocked for them, and, then, not being able to back out of them; it isn't about physical punishment or physical aggression. Being completely smothered in your ass or having extreme pressure applied, or my face ridden, or things like that aren't what I'm looking for; instead, I'd prefer to lick the sweat out of your asshole or to be farted on, or to have you gently rub your asshole over my face till I smell like it - pain and suffering don't do much for me; raunch, vulgarity, tabooness, and things like that, however, are an immense turn on.

Disclaimers and Details

I am married, but my wife knows I have kinks she isn't into, she also knows I'm looking for someone to explore those with and is not only okay with it, but actively encourages it.

I have a stomach disorder similar to Crohn's, this can impact things. It is easier for me to host because of this.

Physical: 6'4", 180 lbs., white, Eastern European, chest hair, athletic build, dick: 6.5 x 5.5, hair: short, dark, brown.

Kinks: facesitting, ass eating, ass sniffing, women's bodily functions, being belittled and demeaned, humiliation, pussy eating, teasing / edging.

This is for IRL, I'm not looking for an online only relationship, nor for one with someone that is hours away.

Please ask me if there's anything I can add or tell you more about, I'm very open to suggestions and variations.