About Me:

I am a 31 year old cisgender man from Dublin. I am 5ft 6 with hazel eyes, white skin and am on the slim side. I also wear glasses full-time. Happy to exchange more pictures at a later stage when we both feel comfortable.

I have a knack for patiently taming compoopers and finding humor in everyday life - Think random, ‘IT Crowd’ scenarios that somehow make sense in my line of work. Life’s about growth, connection, and good laughs, and I’m usually up for meaningful chats and silly witticisms. Outside of knowing which buttons to press at work, I've embraced simplicity and little improvements. I rarely drink, if at all; but always in moderation and I am a non-smoker.

I enjoyed trying new things, like dancing to jazz or exploring creative hobbies like drawing or photography. Even though I am open to a lot of topics, my particular interests include psychology, tech, French things, DIY, film making and the odd video game (almost exclusively on a Steam Deck). Interested to hear about yours!

Appearance wise: The handsomest man on the land, out of the ordinary, the best of the best, the definition of beauty. On a serious note, I think I'm decent. 5ft 6, fairly slim with dark hair and hazel eyes. Friendly observers have regarded me someone who's kind, intelligent, decent, organised, diplomatic and sincere - But please take all these for what they're worth.

I think it's important for you to know that I find myself in a bit of a rut between work and keeping my mum company at home after losing a family member. I've been feeling a bit weary about going out alone to try make new friends again and again. So here I am reaching out into the void in hope of changing that, or at least join forces to push each other to succeed and provide comfort if we fail.

About you;

You are a cisgender woman between or around the age of 27-39, and not too far away. While I am flexible regarding age, please don't message me if you are under 25 or above 40. I'm not prepared to deal with the dynamic such an age gap could bring. I don't mind if you're a little taller or shorter than me, as long I can comfortably wrap my arms around.

I would really love someone as nerdy and introspective as I am, who compliments a dry and silly sense of humor. I appreciate kind, honest, emotionally intelligent and intelligent in general! Someone who wants to share things they're passionate about. And I'm willing to share in return. I also love women who wear glasses. I just think they're cute.

If you are just looking for a hookup, this would require a lot of effort on your part to make me feel comfortable with that. I am looking for someone I can trust. Someone to share my time with and explore life with. While I can be very work orientated, I am always willing to put time aside for loved ones when asked.

I understand finding the perfect person and building a solid companionship will take time to build, but I am patient. You won't receive any unsolicited images from me without your explicit approval.

Boundary Warnings:

To not waste your time, you would be safe to assume I am more vanilla than not. I am not into humiliation, bodily damage, pain, punishment or obedience. You're welcome to ask what my thoughts are on x if it is that important to you though.

Kinks:

I lean towards gentle sub and secretly respond well to praise. I want someone who can take the lead and is looking to help make my days a little brighter and more exciting. I can be reserved emotionally so I'd love to meet someone who values and appreciates me as a person, and can make me feel safe opening up to them.

I am a late bloomer/inexperienced/virgin and would love someone who is patient, but excited to try things with me. They'll be okay with the idea of taking things slow or being the big spoon. I love the idea of learning and being taught how to please in the ways they tell me to. I want to know what they like! I'm big into acts of service / acts of love and interested in the idea of being lovingly pegged. I can be shy, but part of me enjoys taking risqué photos. I would love to have them admired by someone special.

If Intersted:

I would appreciate reading paragraph about why you think we're compatible. I've put a decent amount of detail about me, myself and I here, so I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a genuine effort in return. I know composing thoughts in writing is not always easy, but sending a mere greeting on it's own does not lead to inspiring conversations.

Including a picture at your discretion can definitely help your chances if I find you attracted. Faceless pictures of myself are available on my other posts, but willing to exchange more with someone who's genuine and interested.