It surprised me when I first found out that many of the dommes I spoke to found feminization/sissification to be an anti-feminist kink. I understand though, especially the way it's often presented on here. So, let me try to be clear about how I think about it.
I enjoy some light degradation, but I don't find "sissy" or "slut" to be inherently degrading terms. Sure they can be, when employed with with right tone and timing, but they can just as easily represent endearment and celebration. I don't view my feminine side as "weak" or "lesser" just because it's feminine. That's not it at all. If anything, it's quite the opposite - I celebrate feminine strength and beauty, and feminization and submission for me are forms of expressing that celebration.
Similarly, I know I'm not less of a man for embracing this side of myself. I'm a fully-functional switch of a man, and I don't need to be a "failure of a lover" or anything like that in order to enjoy feminization.
Look, I just find feminization fun, ok? I think the clothes are beautiful. I love the way my body looks with curves, whether or not they're fake. I melt for the feeling of being squeezed into something tight and slutty, and thinking that someone might want to treat my body as a sex object. The sensation of rolling nylons up my legs, of putting on my heels, of straightening out a far-too-short skirt... it makes me shudder just typing it out!
If any of this resonates with you, I would love to talk and see if we click! Obviously feminization and genderplay are very big kinks to me that I'd be excited to talk about, but I also have other interests inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you have a hankering to trade music recommendations with a surprisingly masculine guy who just happens to be wearing panties, or if you're looking for a complete slut of a man who's as excited to show off his collection of dildos as he is to use them, I'm your guy gal ...🤷♀️😘
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