Hi all,

I'm a bubbly, fun loving Scottish girl living in my own little house in Kent. I've got a stable job, great friends and family, travel regularly and basically have my shit together.

As difficult as it seems to be to find, I want to find a vanilla partner who I can do all the usual coupley stuff with but who'll also hand control of his orgasms over to me and do whatever I tell him 😅

ABOUT ME:

Vanilla me is your fairly introverted normal girl. I don't take myself too seriously, love to laugh likes to lead an easy, drama free life.

I love to travel and aim to do so at least a couple of times a year. I'm equally as content getting lost in amongst the skyscrapers of Tokyo as I am relaxing on the beaches of Mexico.

I'm also an avid baker and as quite a nurturing person I love to feed people and its one of my love languages.

Other hobbies include reading, watching movies, journalling and meditation. I'm also hoping to learn yoga this year.

Physically, like I said in my title I'm a BBW and describe myself as being all boobs and bum, there's plenty of both to worship! If you don't like BBWs, don't waste my time. I'm proud proud I've my figure and its taken me a very long time to get to the point where I feel sexy and comfortable in my own skin and I won't tolerate anyone who doesn't make me feel like a goddess. I've also got mid length brown hair, glasses and have been told I've got a pretty face.

ABOUT YOU:

As mentioned earlier, I've got my shit together I expect the same from my submissive. I'm not a mummy domme so I'm not going to mother you. This doesn't mean you have to be perfect, have a high paying job or the perfect living situation but drive, ambition and a desire to be the best version of yourself are important to me.

Physically, I like traditionally masculine men, hairy chests are a huge weakness of mine and I like a bit of extra meat on the bones. I also prefer men who are older or the same age as me. If you're below the age of 28, I'm not interested. Of course physical appearance is less important than the right connection.

The most important thing I'm looking for is that my submissive should be as interested in me and building a vanilla relationship as I am. Of course you should be passionate about kink but I'm not just here to hold the key to your chastity cage or to be picked up and put down when you're feeling horny. I value good conversation and in case you haven't guessed I have a lot to say and a lot of opinions so if you're monosyllabic then I will get bored quickly. Equally if you only respond to messages when I'm talking about your dick then I'll assume your only looking for a dispenser (seriously if this is you, get a pro domme and stop wasting the time of us lifestyle dommes!)

MY KINKS:

I struggle to define myself as a domme, im fairly multifaceted. My main motivation is my own pleasure so oral whenever I want is a non negotiable. I also expect to be worshipped in whatever way I wish.

My biggest love is seeing my sub squirm - teasing, edging, denying and orgasm control are huge turn ons of mine, especially when combined with chastity. In this regard, I can be playfully mean and enjoy throwing in some gentle teasing and humiliation (I don't do Hard-core humiliation or degradation though).

I've experimented with ass play and pegging in previous relationships and I want to do more of this but for full transparency my experience of this is limited.

Outside of the sexual aspect of the dynamic, I enjoy helping my sub improve themselves and love to support with this through encouragement, praise and rewards.

Of course this is just a vague idea of what I'm into and not exhaustive. Every dynamic is unique and should be built based on each person's kinks and within their boundaries. I also will not jump into anything remotely kinky without getting to know someone and without a full conversation about safety.

My LIMITS:

Do not call me mummy.

No scat, blood or watersports

No dick pics unless asked

I engage in sissification or feminisation

I am fully monogamous and you must be single to approach me

If you've made it this far, thank you for reading and I look forward to hearing from those who meet my requirements 😊