No need to answer as precisely, but your efforts are welcome. And glory to the translators for existing, my English is not so good.

Hello Ladies! (Bow) You can call me Arito, I'm freshly 22, and from France 🇫🇷

About me

Physically, I have brown hair and blue-green eyes, I’m a tall and large guy, almost 1.90m (6'3"), and I try to stay healthy by working out when I'm motivated. I'm a homebody at heart and a bit of a nerd, usually quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I open up and can be pretty talkative! ;)

When I'm not exploring BDSM, you'll probably find me reading or playing video and board games. My interests are pretty diverse—I love music, science, binge-watch films and anime when I have time, and I'm passionate about history, which is why I decided to study it. I really like ancient history, especially Greek, but I also enjoy the contemporary period. My ambition is to become a teacher, at highschool if possible, so I'm keen to share my passion and I'm currently trying to do some tutoring alongside my studies.

What I'm looking for

I don't expect you to exactly meet the traits, qualities, etc. of the person I'm looking for. Just because you missed to tick a few boxes on my list doesn't mean you're out for consideration.

Ideally, I’m looking for a short or long-term kinky friends-with-benefits situation, something casual that could lead to IRL meetings if things go well. It would be great if you're in a similar time zone to make scheduling easier, though it's not a deal-breaker if you think we'll click! Or in a neighbouring country, if we had the opportunity to meet, either occasionally or on a regular basis.

But more important than being kinky-compatible is being friendly-compatible. I'm mainly looking for a likeminded woman I can get along with—someone who is communicative and like to talk a lot on their own initiative (I like to talk, but I also like to listen a lot more), but with no obligation to write each other constantly. I'd love to have intellectually stimulating exchanges with you, and spend time together. Bonus points if you speak French, even a little, if you're funny or have a sharp sense of humor and a playful attitude, I love a good laugh as much as a serious conversation.

Overall, I’m looking for a good company with a sort of connection, playful and consistent.

If it comes to that, I hope it can turn into a serious long-term relationship. But that's not the case at the moment, so don't feel pressured if you're not looking for that.

About you & Kink-wise

As a uni student, I'm not looking for a lifestyle relationship right now—I just don't have the time or energy to fully commit to someone. If, in addition to making good friends, we can also have some fun and intimacy, I'll be more than happy. In terms of age, I don't have a problem as long as you're an adult, but I'd be more comfortable if you're in your twenties and say up to a decade older than me.

I definitely prefer to be guided by a kind and trusting hand that, despite its gentleness, wouldn’t hesitate to be a little rough if needed. I'm a big fan of playful, teasing personalities like mine, but if you're more provocative or kinky, that undeniable, head-spinning appeal can work on me too... A gentle switchy-domme in short, the epitome of an iron fist in a velvet glove. Although it's rare, I can be a bit sassy sometimes—so if you're bossy or sassy too, it might add a little spice in positive way. I still prefer to be sweet and show affection—making you laugh, smile and lighten your daily life is far more important to me than any kink, and I hope it's the same for you.

I am a gentle switch and therefore somewhat flexible in regards to kinks. So depending on if you are dominant or also a switch, I am sure we can find a dynamic where we both can have fun. To give you some ideas: lover of lingerie (to admire, not wearing it), teasing/edging&denial, light breathplay, open to anything ass-related over a wide range, from ass play to anal, spanking, facesitting (by far my favourite), oral sex, sensory play, body worship.

I like to try a bit of everything, whether it suits me or not. While I’m new to this side of kink and open to challenging myself and discovering new things for you, there are some things I know I definitely don’t enjoy. Hard no: findom, feminization, intense pain (like sounding), chastity, blood play, permanent mark/damage.

Final

As I thought, it's a bit long but I think I’ve shared enough to keep you interested! I’m open to sharing photos after a few days of talking, to see if the attraction is physical as well. Faceless pics will do at first, I know privacy is important for both sides in this scene. I won't get offended if I'm not your cup of tea, that's fine, let's just be frank.

I’ve barely begun to scratch the surface. But best to save most of it for private conversations and chemistry building, right?

Kind regards,

Arito