I have learned a lot about myself over the past few years of exploring on Reddit. I have always known I had a submissive side, or at least that I do like to relinquish control and be instructed. (I don't have any need to be demeaned, and I'm not into pain although sensory play can certainly flirt with the line).

I suppose the term for what I'm looking for would be mommy domme, but I don't like using the word specifically. I'm still figuring out where I fall on the kink spectrum, and suspect that I'm really pretty inexperienced and vanilla and don't know how I feel about being pushed. But I do know what I like.

I started with erotic hypnosis videos, then from there to JOI/JOE. I'm very aural and respond VERY strongly to a smooth voice. I have learned is that I do have a dominant side as well, that I can enjoy either role under the right circumstances. I have explored the dominant role more recently and that has been empowering. But I truly do want to explore my submissive side further. Gently, because sweetness and tenderness can be very sexy - and intensity will take care of itself in time. I don't know exactly what that looks like, and I'm hoping you'll help me figure that out.

I am a youthful 57, on the fit side of dad bod, 5'10, hair still mostly dark but with more wisdom highlights every day. Trimmed beard salt and pepper edging towards silver. I am diligent, attentive, and willing, if a little uncertain where my lines are. Maybe you find that part appealing. I don't know how I feel about being manipulated, but I did admit to the erotic hypnosis thing, so maybe that speaks for itself.

This would be online to start with no matter where you are, but if there is a connection there I would be open to taking things into RL. It all depends on you, and me, and what happens when we put them together, right?