I don’t know what I am looking for exactly at this point. A boyfriend? A play thing? A companion? A muse? A boytoy? A husband? A servant? Maybe some combination of some and all.

I have posted ads here before, and I have replied to a lot of ads over the years.

I like men that are deferential and shy, but self possessed. Bookish or a jock. Varied interests and esoteric knowledge. Thrall me with your acumen, make me laugh, something. Aloof is okay, weird is okay, creepy is okay, perverted is okay, sad is okay.

I have experience on-line and irl as a domme, mommydom, gentledom, and sadist. I have also been in various vanilla relationships.

As far as sex, I like all the things everyone else here does. JOI, denial, ass play (your ass), face sitting, ass eating, light impact play, hair pulling, chastity, foot worship, panties, role playing etc. I especially like body worship/being worshipped, and nursing. I like to feel adored, respected, admired by a boy that I find irresistible. I have other sexual interests and peccadillos. I won’t take up more space delineating them all here.

Hard limits are anything “sissy” or that degrades femininity, anything illegal, anything that feels TOO much like pretending, anything related to children babies age regression etc etc.

I have a job, a life, various responsibilities. Eastern timezone and currently in the Midwest. I’ve traveled a lot in the US, and a little in Europe. I am interested in/know a lot about fine arts, movies from before the 2000s, sports, needlework, world literature, antiques, languages, early electronic music, whatever. I’m unmarried/single, without children. About 5’4, zaftig.

I am a generally encouraging person, a problem solver, mild risk taker. My natural personality is fairly bossy and very direct. I like to lightly roast and tease people a lot. I am nosy and curious and will be nosy and curious about you, always. I want to understand you and to feel understood by you. Fluid conversations and sort of mental connection would be ideal, on top of sexual compatibility and mutual attraction.

Age, race, sexual experience level, height, location, etc are all open. I prefer thin bisexual men with body hair, but these are simply preferences. The only deal breaker is you have to be a native English speaker or have very strong near-native English skills. And single. I am not polyamorous or interested in being a third in someone’s failing marriage.

On-line only is okay to start, but if we are compatible and vibing, spending time together irl should be the goal.

I am not looking to only hook up, sext, exchange nudes, etc. Don’t bother to reply if that is what you’re seeking from this. I’m looking for something durable and intentional. Within your response/dm request, include the last song you listened to as proof that you read all of this.