I understand that I'm posting in r/femdompersonals, but my first priority isn't necessarily sex. I value building trust and a real personal connection with someone before getting too entangled with them. 

I'm a college student who's had too much work getting in the way of having the time and energy to construct a serious and responsible relationship with another person. As I'm nearing graduation, I’m seeking to change that, and I feel that I've finally grown up enough to know who and what I'm looking for.

Physically, I'm white, skinny, 5'9, bisexual, and I have short-to-medium length blond hair. I'm currently located in Chicago, but I bounce between Chicago and New York so I'm looking at both locations. I'd really prefer an in-person connection; online is fine in the short-term as long as we can still eventually meet at some point in the future. I'm a classical musician, so practice takes up a large portion of my time. Outside of that, I love listening to music, playing multiplayer/board games with friends, and traveling whenever I get the opportunity. 

My most important values in another person are trustworthiness, honesty/genuineness, and open-mindedness. I'm really seeking a more particular kind of person that I can "click" with, someone who shares similar values, interests, and probably most importantly, a sense of humor. I believe in true love, and I want to respect someone so much I could do almost anything for them. This is probably where femdom plays its part. I've been interested in femdom for as long as I've had feelings for people, but I believe it comes from my desire to serve someone that I respect and love, and from the satisfaction I would get from making them happy. I understand the frustration that dommes get from being perceived as "kink dispensers", and I won't list my kinks here, since most of my "kink" revolves around accomplishing what my partner wants; coercing a partner to satisfy only my own kinks doesn't really feel like femdom to me. A great match for me would be a woman who is confident and assertive in all aspects of life, who is not shy about displaying her intelligence or expertise in an area or skill. Of course, I would hope that our eventual love and compassion will go both ways. I am perfectly open to being a switch, as long as I can be subservient to you at least some of the time. Even if our connection does not end up being long-term, I would greatly appreciate all of the love and experiences we share over our time together.

Feel free to message if you have any questions; you can be as direct as you'd like with me.