Hiya!

Thanks for taking a second to check out my ad, I hope it resonates with you! If so, definitely shoot me a message and let’s chat! No pressure. Looking for the right person and happy to be patient in that process.

As the title suggests, I’m a heavily sub-leaning switch looking for an illustrious partner to devote my time to! I’m 25, 5’10”, 160lbs, fit, handsome with some amount of standard deviation, based in California, and am a horrible workaholic (but I love my job!). Quite demisexual so connection is a must. I prefer to reserve honorifics for the person who deserves them, so please don’t expect me to be a “good little sub”, address you a certain way, send pics or videos of me, etc. until we’ve at LEAST had a phone call and exchanged SFW photos! Let’s be humans for a moment and exist outside of kink until there’s some amount of trust formed.

I have a degree in communications and a minor in outdoor recreation programming (both of which I use daily at work). I love to read, watch movies, go hiking, rock climb (mostly outdoors but also in the gym), and mountain bike. I LOVE to cook and it’s probably my biggest non-work related hobby (my work is my play! but, maybe you can change that?).

Kink-wise, there’s a lot to be said but expect the usual suspects from what you can infer. I’d prefer to have a conversation with you first before telling you all the things we’ll use and all the places we’ll put them. But, if it helps, I’m quite open to most relevant things and am all about YOUR pleasure. Most of the time… (Terms and conditions do apply, limits are limits for a reason.)

About you: You’re at least my age, preferably older, and no more than 50 (willing to make exceptions for an exceptional woman). You work a stable job, have hobbies, friends, are driven by more than just money (but are very driven), and love to laugh! Childfree (or not looking to have more children) is a must as I had a successful vasectomy at 21. I also have 2 cats who I adore more than almost anything in the world so you must be pet-friendly. Play your cards right and you can meet them!

If any of this spoke to you, come speak to me! Expect to share photos and have a phone call reasonably soon after we start talking. Please be prepared to have some amount of consistent, engaging, thought-provoking conversation (text/phone/video) after messaging me. If interested, shoot me a message that says what about this post called out to you!!

I hope you have a great weekend and I look forward to hearing from you!