As the title says, I’m stepping into my Domme side and discovering what feels authentic to me in this dynamic. This journey has brought me here, looking for my first sub—a partner who’s ready to support and explore with me as I embrace my nurturing, playful, and gentle dominance.

To be honest, I won’t always get it right on the first try. I’m still learning and growing into this role, and I’m seeking a sub who’s patient and understanding, someone eager to help me refine my approach while respecting my authority. I want a sub who will work with me to create a dynamic filled with trust, intimacy, and mutual growth.

What I’m Looking For in a Sub

I’m seeking someone who:

• Is 25 (non-negotiable).
• Is loyal, eager to please, emotionally intelligent, playful, and ambitious.
• Can handle a mix of being a pet, a toy, and/or servant.
• Thrives on verbal praise but doesn’t mind a little structure and correction when needed.
• Understands that I’m not super strict by nature, but I will implement rules, structure, and discipline where necessary.

This can start as an online dynamic, but there must be an IRL component eventually. Be willing and able to travel to me in NYC when the time is right.

I’d prefer someone with experience, but I’m open to someone new to submission if they are open to learning and growing alongside me.

What I Enjoy

Physical/Control-Based:

• Restraints, bondage, and sensory play
• Orgasm denial and forced edging

Lifestyle/Service-Based:

• Cleaning, cooking, or running errands for me
• Personal care (e.g., massages, foot worship, etc.)
• Rituals or routines (daily check-ins, kneeling, affirmations, etc.)

Emotional Connection:

• Building trust through open and honest communication
• Creating submission rituals (such as calling me “Mommy”)
• Exploring aftercare together to ensure balance and mutual satisfaction

What I’m NOT Looking For

I’m here to build something meaningful and long-term, so here’s some of my non-negotiables:

• No sissification, femboys, or feminization
• No jerk-off fodder: If you’re here to send me low-effort messages for your own gratification, don’t bother.
• No arrogance, immaturity, or lack of accountability.
• I won’t vibe with subs who avoid vulnerability, resist correction, or try to “top from the bottom.”

If you cross my boundaries or act pushy, I expect clear communication to address the issue. However, repeated disrespect will lead to a termination of the dynamic. Mutual respect and trust are non-negotiable for me.

Communication & Expectations

• Daily Check-Ins: Consistency is key. I expect daily messages and clear, open communication.
• IRL Interactions: I’d like this to evolve into regular meetups (think weekend dates filled with romance and submission). Over time, I’m looking to build a long-term, female-led relationship that intertwines Domme dynamics with love and intimacy.

What This Means to Me

I’m a gentle Domme who leads with kindness, playfulness, and emotional depth, but I’m also strong, confident, and capable of creating structure when needed. Through this journey, I want to grow into someone who:

• Embraces her power fully
• Leads with confidence and intention
• Cultivates a deeper sense of love and trust within the dynamic

If you’re serious about stepping into this dynamic with me and ready to be Mommy’s first toy, send me a thoughtful message. Tell me about yourself, your experience (or lack thereof), and what you’re looking for in a Domme. Let’s see if we align.

—Mommy 💋