Hello Internet Friends!

Me: I'm a 40 year old AMAB man who has only found satisfaction when being conditioned to properly serve and submit to a monogamous owner in the past. I have a terminal degree in a science field work in research, so if you are adverse to nerds this isn't going to work out. I like to work out, hike, do pretty much anything outside, read (mostly scientific journals these days, though), listen to music, and play video games (RPGs and dungeon crawlers at the top of the list). I love dogs and tolerate cats when required.

I'm 6'3, not 20 anymore but in good shape, and have a traditionally masculine outward appearance in terms of broad shoulders and chest hair. I also have long hair, typically tied up (perhaps not the only thing tied up) and a beard that's kept neat. I have several decent sized tattoos, but nothing that would show out from under a business casual work attire. I don't mind being feminized, but if you are looking for a petite, traditionally feminine appearing sub/slave I'm probably not for you.

In terms of kinks, I'm pretty open to most things and will try almost anything once, unless it's a hard limit. The main thing I crave is the mental/emotional conditioning that makes me truly feel helpless, subjugated, and submissive to that one special owner. Language and communication are a big part of that, which is why I prefer a dynamic where I'm not even permitted to use personal pronouns or my name when able (e.g. saying 'this slave' and eventually 'Your slave' instead of I; having to end every sentence to you with your chosen honorific should you have one, etc.). As a result, most of the physical kinks I've found I enjoy are because of the mental state they put me in. Big fan of BDSM, forced oral service (rough or gentle), pegging/plugging/anal training, keeping a collar around the nether regions, choking, and the like. CNC/free-use are huge triggers to put me into obedient slave-space. Hard limits include scat, blood, and types of impact/pain play that leave lasting marks. Chastity is fine if you want to keep your toys locked up between uses, but if you are looking to lock your slave up for months I'm probably not for you. I have an extremely high drive and near lack of a refractory period and long term chastity has had the opposite effect on me as intended in the past.

You: I'm pretty open in terms of the types of people I would like to interact with. General age range would be 30-60, but it definitely isn't a hard boundary. That said, the upper limit would be more flexible than the lower in general, unless there is a good deal of maturity above the norm. Physically I have found pretty much any body type attractive, it just depends on how the person carries it. As I said, I'm looking for online at first, but eventually if it moves to the real world being on the east coast US would be a plus. The one major criteria I have is the ability to show critical thinking skills. In order for me to be truly subjugated, I have to respect your mind more than anything else. I'm not saying you have to be some sort of generous or a in a STEM field, more that if you are saying things that demonstrate a lack of critical thinking/common sense, we just won't get along (e.g. if you are hyper religious, bigoted, etc).

If you got to the bottom and are still interested, I look forward to chatting with you! If nothing else, maybe it will lead to some interesting conversation, but hopefully something more. Either way, best of luck to all!