I’m not really sure where to begin, or what exactly to expect, but I need to start somewhere. I’d like to find someone I can talk to, who will be understanding of my situation and inexperience. I’m new to this, but have long been interested, I would love to find someone who is into occasional voice chats, and is willing to discuss the lifestyle with a beginner. I appreciate any help figuring out how I can satisfy my submissive side, while respecting the stipulation from my wife that everything must remain online.
I’m 44m, married with a family, and have had a dead bedroom for several years. It has been three years since I have had sex, and after talking to my wife, she has agreed that I should find a sexual outlet online, so that we can stay together to continue raising our family.
When I was younger I considered myself to be more of a switch, my wife would indulge me on occasion and be the more dominant one, however those days are long gone. As time goes on, the more I crave a strong woman to take control. I’ve been the only dominant one in my marriage for the last 10 years, and that has gone terribly, I crave handing over power, submitting to a strong assertive woman, and doing absolutely everything in my power to please her. My dominant side has shifted, I now identify strongly as a submissive… I have embraced this recently, but need help channeling my energy into productively exploring this rather than just fantasizing.
If you’ve read this, thank you very much, I’m sorry for rambling, I’m still working on a more cohesive message. I would love to hear from you!
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