Hello!

I am a recent graduate student in Wisconsin who has some prior experience being a submissive in an irl relationship. After taking a break from the dynamic for a couple of years to finish out my studies and get established in a career I am craving the chance to find another domme/sub dynamic. I have found myself longing for this connection over the past few years, but felt I owed it to myself and my partners to establish myself in life so when I returned to the dynamic I could give the it the effort it deserves.

About me: I am a 5’11” brown hair blue eyes male, I weigh about 175lbs and am fairly athletic as I used to be a division 1 athlete back in college. I used to play college soccer, and still try to play in local leagues once or twice a week to stay active and have that part of my social life. I also love to play tennis and when the opportunity arises I also love to surf! Despite growing up in the Midwest I’ve taken a number of trips to the pacific coast where I’ve learned how to surf, and I absolutely love it. Nothing beats the feeling of relaxing with friends out on the water and being part of nature.

As far as hobbies go: I dabble in guitar and piano, I used to play way more and am just now trying to get back into it. I also enjoy playing video games, but mostly with friends. I haven’t spent much time playing single player games, but I do still enjoy them on occasion. Along with the sports I play I also have enjoyed learning Spanish as a second language and a trying to get back into reading. Although this has been a struggle because I read quite a bit for my job.

Who I’m looking for: a domme that also cares about getting to know me. You could be experienced or completely inexperienced, I understand and embrace learning about the dynamic with someone and exploring what we both enjoy together. I appreciate someone that values their own time and allows me to have my time as well, especially as we get to know each other. You can be younger than me or older than me, I don’t really have an age range (be above 18 though, preferably older). And please have an understanding of your mental health. This dynamic requires both partners to understand their own mental health and limits and desires, nobody needs to be perfect, I just ask that you’re mindful of yourself and my mental health :)

Now the fun part Kinks include pegging, chastity, bondage, orgasm control, orgasm denial, edging, facesitting, free-use, mild cbt and impact play, gags, blindfolds, micro-managing, and I’m sure many other things that I’m interested in learning with you!

Limits are scat, blood, heavy impact play, and anything overtly public that could risk my career.

I look forward to getting to know all of you, and I’m happy to provide sfw pictures to verify and explore our attractiveness to each other.