Hey there!

I want to write a femdom themed short story as a collaborative creative project with someone. I'm very interested in exploring female empowerment through the lens of power dynamics in relationships and sex. However, I feel like a lot of femdom content is still mostly targeted at men's sexual gratification, whereas I think it would be interesting to write this story from a female gaze. As I am woefully blind to the female gaze, I'd love to explore these ideas together with someone who is more experienced with it, and bring our perspectives together in a mutual creation.

Some basic ideas I have:

Matriarchy: power relations have systematically evolved throughout our history and are contingent on the socio-historical conditions of the time. However, thinking of chaos theory, it seems that if at some point in our history there had been a different point of departure, our society would look completely different. So what if instead of patriarchal power relations, matriarchal power relations emerged. What would the world be like today? What would relationships be like? How would our sexual scripts be different? Our gender roles? Would there be men's rights movements and what issues would be on their agenda?

Script reversals: Professor - student, boss - employee, police officer - detainee, classic roles of hierarchical power structures that usually favor the male part. Only now it is the other way around.

I'm curious to explore what kind of femdom dynamics work through the framework of the female gaze, and I feel like I am already back to operating within my male gaze when I think about mere role reversals. I'm open to any re-interpretations of femdom dynamics!

Themes that I find particularly interesting are: body positivity and inclusivity, seniority dynamics, pleasure denial (and permission), modern technologies, urban life, loneliness and connectivity, alternative relationship models.

Kinks: Femdom, oral, facesitting, unconventionally attractive bodies, degradation, humiliation, denial, cuckolding, watersports, body odour and sweat, body hair, confidence & self-esteem

Limits: gore, diapers, CBT.

I'm interested in hearing your thoughts and working out the specifics of this endeavour, from characters to worldbuilding to specific scenarios and scenes!