Hi r/femdompersonals

I'm a 32 and really looking to embrace my submissive side. I wrote my city in the title of the post, but I know the chances are low that someone from my city might see this post, so I'm open to online connections as well. If it's in person I prefer that it is monogamous. I'm not just strictly looking for kink here, I'd like something long term so I would like to actually be friends to know that there's at least something we can talk about during the day as well.

In real life, most people probably wouldn't assume that I have a submissive side. Although I'd down to switch sometimes and be a little dominant, I definitely lean towards being submissive. I love to be cuddled and by told that I'm a good boy. It just makes me melt and feel so good. At my job, I'm typically the one in charge, so to go home at the end of the day and melt into my partner's caring arms is the perfect end to the day.

I'm happy to send a picture if we connect, I understand that not everyone is comfortable sending a picture, but if I'm sending one, I'd like to see one of you as well. It doesn't have to include your face, but maybe eventually when we build up some trust :) If this is online, then I'd still like for us to text throughout the day and tell each other about what's happening. About me, I'm 32, Asian, 185 lbs, chubby/muscular build, born and raised in Canada. I work as a professional and you can probably find me playing sports in the evenings after work.

I'd really like to connect with someone that is kind, caring and on the gentle/mommydom side. I prefer some of the more gentle domme kinks, but as we get to know each other, I can be quite kinky and willing to try most things ;)

As for the NSFW side. I enjoy orgasm control, joi, exhibitionism (I love to send lots of nudes), playful teasing and degradation, gentle femdom, slight sph and humiliation, being tied up, outfit control, CFNM, passionate deep kissing, and facesitting. I've never tried, but would like to try some rope play and pain play (light to start) in the future. It turns me on so much to be dominated by a woman that is physically smaller and weaker than me. Pretty much willing to try most things at least once! Physical pain is great, but emotional pain is generally not. I have no interest in cuckolding, blackmail. findom, permanent marks/injury, scat, or anything illegal.

Open to ages older than 18 and younger than 35, anywhere in the world is fine if it's online, but I work during the day so the best time for us to connect would be during the evenings in MST time zone.

Looking forward to chatting soon! I don't check Reddit (especially my nsfw account) all the time, so I apologize if I don't answer you right away. I promise its not because I'm not eagerly waiting for your DM haha