Hi /r/femdompersonals!

I posted here before and got a few decent conversations but unfortunately everything seems to has fizzled out so I'm back! I will be up-front about what I'm looking for: I want to find my life-partner who also happens to be dominant. I'm limiting this search to Northern Colorado to the Denver since I am located in Loveland and would like this to at least be in person some of the time. I also strictly prefer monogamy if we decide that we work together. I would like to have kids at some point too.

Me:

Looks wise I'm 6 feet tall and white with blue eyes and short brown hair. I workout regularly and stay in shape, but I don't have a 6 pack or the physique of a greek god. I'm cool with trading pictures and verifying early on so we know what each-other look like. For my hobbies I like building things or doing DIY projects in my spare time which is probably why I'm an engineer. I bought a house recently so I have plenty to work on. I also like cooking, although that's more of the super involved Sunday meal type of cooking rather the every day type of thing. In the winter I tend to ski almost every weekend so if you're into that we could go together (Ikon). I also play video games and watch tv a little bit.I'm kind of nerdy. I love LOTR, Star Wars, space, technology, dinosaurs, and other similar things. I'm a bit of an introvert, I can take a while to open up around new people. I love to listen though, so if you're a yapper it will work out well. On the flip-side of that I'm a bit of a people pleaser too which is probably what has brought me to this sub.

Ideally you:

Looking for something long term and located in the area I mentioned earlier or at least nearby it. I'd prefer a partner between 24-33. I could stretch that a little bit if there's a possibility of a great connection though. The personality traits I value the most are honesty, intelligence and empathy. I believe those form a healthy base to grow a relationship from. I don't have a ton of preferences look wise, I'm open to any race or ethnicity but I would prefer someone who is in somewhat decent shape. Thick is fine but I'm personally not attracted to BBW body types. I prioritize my health and would like a partner who does the same.

Kinky Stuff:

Some of my favorite kinks are orgasm control, mind play, and bondage. I would like to explore those more as there's only so much exploring I could do without an in-person domme. I have more but I'd like to explore everything together if possible. I will be bringing some toys to the table though. There's more than this but I'd like to have a connection and explore everything together. If the idea of watching tv cuddled up together but also I'm tied up appeals to you, we'd probably get along just fine. I enjoy a mix of soft and hard femdom, keeping me guessing is part of the fun. If you call me a good boy though, I will absolutely melt. My limits are bathroom, heavy humiliation, blood, non-monogamy, and public. I feel that my ideal relationship falls short of TPE but is more than just kinky sex. I would like to give up some control outside of the bedroom but I would like to have some autonomy.

If this post interests you please reach out! I slightly prefer the chat function for initial conversations but DM's are perfectly fine too. I would like to move to a different platform within a few messages though. Thanks, and if you don't reach out I hope you find what you're looking for!