Hello,

I’m a 5’9”, 170-pound, fit, professional man with brown hair, blue eyes, and an athletic lifestyle. Outwardly, I present as masculine—outgoing, competitive, and passionate about sports, the outdoors, and social connections. But beneath that exterior lies a different story: a switch seeking to explore and embrace his submissive side.

I’m looking for a dominant who can help me break free from my tendency to top from the bottom—someone who knows how to lead with confidence, leaving no room for resistance. I want to surrender completely and immerse myself in the experience of serving without question.

Here’s a bit more about me: • I own a chastity cage and vibrator but am open to expanding my collection of toys based on your guidance. • I enjoy light humiliation, especially playful size comparisons that make me feel small and powerless in contrast to your presence. • Discretion is a must, as I am married and exploring this privately. I cannot offer 24/7 availability but will give you my complete devotion during the time we share.

I understand how important trust, communication, and mutual respect are in this dynamic. I’m looking for someone who finds fulfillment in shaping and challenging me. Your ability to enforce rules, push boundaries within consent, and guide my journey toward true submission is something I crave deeply.

When I step into the role of submissive, I want to shed the parts of myself that cling to control and allow you to mold me into what pleases you. There is something freeing about giving away my power and embracing vulnerability in a way I can’t experience in my daily life. I know I’m strong-willed and may even resist at times, but I’m seeking a dominant who sees that as part of the challenge—and who takes pride in knowing they’re the one who can break through.

Please know that I have no interest in blackmail, financial domination, or anything involving coercion. This journey is about trust and mutual growth, not exploitation. I respect your time and dedication and hope for that same respect in return.

If you’re an intelligent, powerful leader who enjoys guiding someone like me into true submission, I would be honored to hear from you. Let me prove my worth as someone worthy of your attention and training. I’m ready to begin this exploration with the right dominant by my side.