Hi there! I'm never really sure what to write in these, but I know that I want what I want and the rest will take care of itself!

So I'm 34. White. 6ft tall. I am a little chubby but not HUGE. I have wide shoulders and a big frame haha. I'm a big boy.

I have currently been single for 2 years, and I am ready to get back out there. I don't have any kids. I've never been married.

My childhood was a mess (cue femdom here) After high school I moved around the states doing various jobs. I got into a couple relationships, and had some fun. Now I'm in my 30s, I'm ready to go back to school, I want to settle down, and I want that to be in a FLR dynamic.

I currently work in a medical type setting, it's very laid back and easy going. It makes my life very stress free and I can't be thankful enough for that.

When I'm not at work, I'm usually playing games with online friends. In discord voice chat, or just hanging out with friends and family.

I have been interested in BDSM for a long time. I have a really old Fetlife account but there isn't much on it. I never liked that Fetlife was more of a social website, when I am a very shy type person I guess. It made it hard to find people who were into me and stuff. So. I'm writing this! Aha. I will be the one who has the last laugh!

I have read books. I've been on a couple play dates. I know what I do and do not like.

My primary focus in a relationship is being submissive, and obedient. I want to have, and add value to your life. This can look like a lot of different things, from drawing you awesome pictures with my sweet art skills. Sending you endless messages. Selfies. Calls. Chats. Memos. DMs. PMs. Carrier pigeons. You name it. Some other things I consider my love languages are physical touch, and acts of service. Let me do your laundry. Please allow me to scrub your floors.

Kink wise, I want to be open enough that I can be molded and trained how you like. But I will say I am very interested in chastity and denial. I think it's really interesting, being told "no". Being kept in a state of cloudiness and obedience. It is entirely too romantic for my heart haha.

I like bondage. I like pet play. I like laying by your feet, or worshipping them. I like giving oral, I like giving orgasms. I like having mine denied. I also like nursing, and lots and lots and lots of other fun activities.

I am very eager and easily excitable, but I have a good head on my shoulders and I can see and distinguish when is a good time vs a bad time. I know you don't want to be a kink dispenser, nor do you want to be ghosted. I don't either.

I do want: to form a strong bond over time. I want to confide everything in you, and you me.

Anyway. I'm sure I'm forgetting a lot but we have forever to get to know one another, and I am very excited at the possibilities that can come from this!

Hope to hear from you! Pic for pic