Introduction:

Hi! To be honest, I'm out of my comfort zone here but that is my resolution this year, so here goes. I'm a single guy living in the Philly suburbs. I work remotely for a small company. In my free time, I enjoy reading, watching movies/tv shows/sports, cycling, and listening to podcasts. I have a fascination with ghosts (but I'm too scared to watch horror movies haha) and aliens and space. I love a good, long youtube deep dive on a topic. I also love a walk in the park and people watching at a cafe or bar. Overall, my life goals are to take care of my physical and mental health and make time for and memories with my friends and family. I don't aspire to anything more and I am staunchly childfree! Physically, I'm 5'7", 135 lbs with black hair, glasses, and a scraggly beard which looks terrible so I'm usually clean shaven.

Personality:

I definitely have a shy, sensitive nature. It takes me a little to open up but once I'm comfortable, I really open up. I'm introverted and a homebody (but I weirdly travel a decent amount, 13 countries so far!). I'm pretty mild-mannered and low anxiety person (and I'd like to keep it that way!). My sense of humor is a mix of childish, dark, and dry.

What I'm looking for:

I'd consider myself the luckiest person if I can find someone to worship and cherish but I'll temper my expectations. The first step however is friendship. Seriously, I can't open up about kinks without being friends first. I don't have a list of things I'm into because I think those are best discovered through conversation (plus it will help me with the conversation since I'll be a little nervous). But, I will describe what I'm not into so we can be aligned. I'm not into scat, blood, anything illegal or involving animals, findom, cuckolding (open to non-monogamy but this specifically I have no interest in), or feet. I'm also not looking for a 24/7 dynamic because I like to control my job, finances, and life goals. However, I can probably be described as a service sub and I am definitely more into the gentle side of femdom. In terms of personality, I find myself drawn to loud, fiery women but that's not a hard requirement. In physical terms, I don't have any requirements in terms of height. I find myself drawn to thicker women but it's not a requirement either. Honestly, if you're nice, funny, honest, and sweet, I'll be putty in your hands. Lastly, while I'm open to starting online, I'd want to meet up in person eventually so please be open to that. Massive bonus if you are located close by. Thank you for making it to the end! You're the best! I would love to hear about you and what made you reply to this post!