Hey! As the title says, I'm looking for my special sub to be in a female-led relationship with. I'm also bisexual, so ladies feel free to message :)

I'm focusing on my job and my health nowadays among other things. What are you focusing on?

Some of my interests:

- All forms of art. I love visiting art galleries!

- Music. Love rap (I'd literally DIE if I finally find someone who's as passionate about various kinds of rap as I am). I also enjoy blues, West African folk music, symphony orchestra, some post-rock

- Movies and TV shows. I love movie discussions and attend this local movie club, it's really cozy and wholesome

- Stand up comedy. Bobby Lee is everything lmao

- Podcasts by comedians. I like to laugh a lot actually

- Reading. And it's a great alternative to mindlessly scrolling social media

- Some philosophy

- Some spirituality (I'm also into psychedelics 🤪)

- Last but not least, I love animals a lot. And I have a cat.

Now I also have another side to me, which brings us to...

Kinks:

- Total power exchange, 24/7 (obviously only over time with the right person)

- Being worshipped in various ways (e.g. kissing my whole body etc & etc)

- Facesitting/oral

- Free use

- Kneeling

- Spanking

- Flogging (including genitals 😈)

- Impact play in general (slapping my sub in the face)

- Humiliating my sub with my feet / Foot massage

- Spitting

- CBT (mild to moderate pain)

- Nipple clamps

- Clothespin attached to tongue

- CEI

- Possibly golden shower :)

- Sounding (been fantasizing about it lately)

- BONDAGE/Spreader bar

- Blindfolds

- Orgasm denial

- Sensory play

- 2 subs serving me, Forced bi

- Many other humiliating things 😈

I'm NOT big on edging, JOI, or chastity cage tbh. I actually haven't tried pegging or anal play since those aren't really big on my list. I'm curious to try at some point.

Limits:

- Feminization (I'd like to put on makeup on my sub but as a cute thing, I never see it as humiliating)

- Sissification

- Watersports

- Scat

- Blood

- Needles

- Fisting (just no)

- Age play

- MARRIED PEOPLE - just no!

I'm including my kinks BUT I do not want to have a relationship just based on shared kinks. However, I still feel the need to include them since I see many people are looking for a gentle/soft Mommy type of dynamic. And that is definitely NOT what I'm into.

Who I'm looking for:

- 28-36 years old

- Self-aware (this is very important)

- Someone who isn't too concerned with people's opinions

- Someone who knows what they want (as opposed to always asking people for advice)

- Someone who's capable of forming their own opinion (as opposed to repeating what other people say)

- Someone who is fairly independent and yet is eager to serve me.

See, I'm not looking for a doormat. My idea of a female led relationship is where my sub actually values and trusts my judgment, where I listen to their input and take it into account when making my final decision. Where I don't have to micromanage or remind them of their duties. Where they're eager to anticipate my needs and make me smile.

Wow this was effing LONG. Anyway, if you send a nice, informative, well-crafted message, I'll respond. I'm more than happy to verify and exchange SFW pics. And btw I've been lied to and catfished by subby people quite a few times so gotta be observant out there 😁😁

Alright let's do this!