I am looking for a loving, trusting Female Led Relationship. The emphasis for me being on the "relationship" part. Meaning that it is important for me to have a personal connection and that we enjoy spending time with each other, long conversations, having fun, cuddling, goofing around, playing boardgames, etc. Basically like any good relationship. On top of that is our FLR dynamic, in that the focus of the relationship is on my partner and her needs, wants, wishes, interests and above all happiness.
I am of course still my own person with my own life, hobbies, friends and interests that I enjoy and want to pursue. But within our relationship and agreed upon areas, my partner would always have the final say on anything. I want to be able to voice my thoughts and opinions, but the right to decide is always with my partner. Doesn't mean that she has to decide, but if she wants to, she always can.
My motivation comes from wanting to make my partner happy and her life easier. I get my satisfaction and joy from the pleasure of my partner, in vanilla as in Kink.
For me that also means that any kinks or fetishes by themselves are not overly relevant for me. I of course have certain things I enjoy, like chastity, humiliation and more, but my biggest kinks are definitely obedience and service. I don't expect or want any play to happen unless my partner is in the mood for it and wants it by herself. My obedience and service to her is of course independent from that and always a given, simply as part of the lifestyle and relationship itself.
I do however enjoy being able to occasionally play with other people in a D/s context, and would like to keep that freedom.
On the vanilla side, I am a Nerd. I enjoy Roleplay, LARP, Video- and Boardgames, reading, Theatre, Musicals, Movies, TV shows, etc. So you know, the stuff pretty much everyone enjoys. Especially LARP. Rarely do I meet a person who is not an avid LARPer, and I definitely never get strange looks when I attempt to explain what it is :-D
I am an introvert who prefers to connect deeply with a few, and something of an adventurous homebody. Meaning I primarily enjoy spending time warm and cozy at home or with friends, but am also up for adventures and exploring new places.
I enjoy getting to know countries, cultures and cuisine, and spent more than a year travelling through Asia and other parts of the world.
I also enjoy listening to Podcasts. First and foremost History podcasts, as History is one of my major passions, and they are what got me hooked on podcasts in the first place (Hardcore History and The History of Rome). Though since then I've also branched out to stuff like How did this get made, Dear Hank and John and more. Any recommendations are welcome!
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