I am an introverted, educated, decent looking, and presentable white male. Slim-fit. 5'11" 150lb. I'm seeking a long term female led relationship with a very possessive partner that can enjoy a dynamic that centers around you being my complete priority. I want you to encourage intense obsession and adoration of you. To encourage a compulsive and sexually addictive need that is impossible to satisfy.

It might seem weird, but I crave to have a clingy, selfish, and possessive partner. I want you to blow up my phone and randomly demand information..to know where I am or who im with, and what im doing. I want you to actively crave attention and encourage me to give it to you as much and as often as possible. To call me whenever you need it, have me stop what i'm doing to give it to you. Not in an overtly abusive way, but I do enjoy playful demands and sexualized games between us.. whenever you want or need to. I'll give you license to be as needy and as clingy as your heart desires. Even if I have plans.

I actually have an isolation kink. For my partner to be manipulative, to use love and sex to get your way with me, and encourage me to be weak to my compulsive need for you. If I have plans and I am out, to call me for attention, moan in my ear, convince me to stop what I'm doing because my obsessive and addictive need for you is more important. To make me say i love you and how perfect and beautiful you are on the phone so everyone around me knows it. Or to call me and convince me to blow off my plans or even convince me to go home instead. Sexual sabotage and being teased into ruining my plans is a huge kink of mine. To even just wear a short skirt around me and have me spend hours fondling and admiring your legs instead. I enjoy long sessions of foreplay and intense adoration.

The only power I'd ever want is to be able to choose and buy outfits and lingerie for you to wear for me when at home or to control me in. And let me spend hours admiring and adoring you in that canvass of fabric that I pick out for your beauty. I want you to be possessive and selfish and even keep me from going out, encourage my obsession and adoration of you, make you my priority...

I would want you to encourage me to declare my need and desires for you throughout the day, encourage me to obsess over your panties when you are not around. i crave playfully manipulative sabotage and control over my social life, so that you will be a priority over evertlything else. I want someone who will enjoy developing a chemistry and learning what makes me tick so she will always know how to make me choose her over everything else.

I would really want to become playfully obsessed and desperate for my need to constantly adore you and be intimate with you, and for this to become the most inoperable part of my life. I want to be the worst addict for you. Obsessed and hopeless without you. I'd want you to become my priority to the point that I'd give up time with friends or family to be with you instead. I crave a relationship so engulfed in playfully obsessive passion and sexual intensity that we are both will be unable to escape our desirous addiction for more. Being lost in this new world of fantasy and even roleplay that we create for eachother.

The ideal person is someone who craves constant attention, is never sexually satisfied, even being or manipulatively pretending to be easily jealous can make our dynamic more intense; who enjoys mind games, and is even interested in hypnosis or psychological conditioning ; who craves control and enjoys the idea of molding a male to be weaker for her. Someone who would truly enjoy using love, sensuality, and sex to pry away deeper into a male psyche and change my behavior; to ever more increase my dependency, need, desire, and sexual addiction for you while also making it nearly impossible to function without you. To really enjoy becoming the center of my life and enjoy being the center of my entire world.

I have actually been mostly dominant throughout my life but had a few instances of this and have switched to wanting it more and more in the oppositeway, and as I think about it and dwell on thoughts and fantasizies about this kind of relationship, the more intense i desire it to be. I really desire for a partner to sexualize these aspects of the relationship, and really use my sexual weaknesses as a tool to get everything she needs. So I do hope to find someone who wants to encourage an addiction to her, constantly encouraging me to admire her, to masturbate to her, to edge to her, or her edge me, and either micromanage everything or get some kind of benefit out of it as she does it. Especially in a kind of scenario where i may have some control over what she wears, and she uses it to her advantage. Even if that means going through my phone and deleting contacts so she is more of a priority to me while I'm being edged, or perhaps while im kissing and touching her legs in a short skirt and giving her oral as she does it. I kind of enjoy the sexualization of extremes, and so, even if it's a bit toxic or a bit unhealthy, it would be fun for me when it is put in a sexual circumstance. I would, in this sense, really enjoy a dynamic with a partner that wants to become the primary source of my attention and pleasure. And the more sexual we are in the relationship dynami , the more toxic or selfish she can act or play.