About me

I'm a 22-year-old student, currently finishing up my Bachelor's degree before jumping straight back into a Master's degree. I also have a part-time job in my field. Ask me and I’ll happily tell you all about it. I'm pretty passionate about what I do.

I live in the south-west of Germany, and I speak German, French, and obviously English.

When I'm not working on my degree, I like to read - mostly history - or unwind by (unintuitively) watching a stressful show. It's a bit out of character for me, but I want to get into hiking this year.

I also have an interest in fashion, mostly traditional clothing, think tweed coats and leather shoes.

I will of course share pictures when/if you decide to message me, but I think it's a good idea for you to get a general sense of what I look like immediately, because I don't love the idea of having pictures of me floating around on the internet. I have black, somewhat longer, curly hair that I want to grow back to shoulder length. I weigh around 68-70 kg depending on the day, and I'm about 175 cm tall. I'm somewhat hairy, being of Middle Eastern origin.

Some things that are important to me in a relationship

I'm looking for a monogamous romantic partnership with an assertive woman, someone who takes pleasure in taking charge.

Right now I'm only interested in relationships with potential for long-term. My preferred age range would therefore be between 20-25 years old, to make sure we are more or less in the same phase in life.

Physical proximity matters a lot to me, so I'd prefer if you were in the south-west of Germany or the east of France. If we click, I’d be happy to share my exact location with you.

I'm not able to immediately jump into a dynamic. I need to really get to know you before I feel open enough to truly submit. In my experience, the better we know each other, the more satisfying the dynamic will be. But I would still prefer if we could meet early on, just for a casual coffee date or a walk.

I know this is repeated often, but communication is very important to me. You can expect me to always be honest and emotionally open, and I would expect the same from you too. Reciprocated affection is also important to me.

Also, while I want a D/s dynamic, I value a deep emotional connection. Spending time together outside of the dynamic is very important to me, whether it’s a simple coffee/dinner date or a day out exploring a new city.

My submission style and what I like

Through past experiences, I realized that I like the role of service-sub. Ideally we would start with more mundane tasks before moving on to more engaged things.

In a D/s relationship, I tend to see my partner as someone to worship and serve. Conversely, I see myself as their object for them to mould and shape.

I find immense fulfillment in learning to anticipate my partner's needs and in being a cherished possession, valued not just for what I can give, but for who I am.

I like being micromanaged, and I find conditioning to be very interesting. I would like to slowly move towards something resembling a TPE or an FLR.

You probably noticed by now that I'm very interested in the psychological aspect of domination and submission. That's not to say I don't enjoy the physical side of it. In fact, I like bondage, body worship, and kneeling, among other things. But I think to me, the psychological aspect takes precedence.

Hard limits

I think it’s important to be clear about boundaries, and for me, there are a few hard limits I’d like to share. Some of my hard limits include scat, urine, blood, feminization, age play, race play, incest, and cuckolding.

Wrap-up

Feel free to share your thoughts or ask me about anything I’ve mentioned—I’d love to hear from you! I'm always happy to meet new people in the scene, even if we're not compatible. I'd love if you could recommend munches in the area I mentioned as well. I've already been to some a couple of years ago but it's tough to find the time.

You can of course message me in whatever language you feel most comfortable using from the three I mentioned above.

Here are some questions to make writing your message a bit easier (you don't have to answer all of them right away):

• How much control over the day-to-day life of your sub do you expect?
• Can you describe the type of dominant you are?
• What does an ideal TPE relationship look like to you?
• How do you balance the emotional and physical sides of a D/s relationship?
• What does your life look like right now?
• What's your favorite movie? book?

I look forward to meeting you!