Hiya! There are probably half a million posts on this sub that start with [M4F], so thank you for clicking on this one! My name is Ethan and I am a 21 year old guy from the US, but is now living in the UK. I came over here to study, and I am planning on being a writer. My goal is having my book on shelves within the next few years!

A bit about me: I love to write (obviously), read, run (I have a distance-runners body type), play chess, and travel (I have been to 30 countries). If you like stories, man oh man I am I the guy for you. Not only is fictional story telling my biggest passion, but I have also spent about a year solo traveling the world on a budget. That comes with a lot of fun experiences.

When I traveled so much, or moved to the UK, or wrote my short stories, or wrote my book, people would tell me: "I wish I could do that," or, "you're so lucky," and my least favorite, "I'll do that one day." I am the kind of person who does things now. I work hard, and achieve my goals.

Now one thing I know I want is a long term relationship. Though, I have never felt satisfied in my past relationships in which I was always the more dominant one. Since I can remember, all my fantasies involved me being the submissive one. I'm over the shame of it, and I simply want a woman who is dominant in bed. I consider myself a switch out of the sheets, quite go with the flow.

In terms of kinks, I am very open minded. I have had a few past relationships, but none of which did I get to explore my submissiveness. I can only base my desires off of ideas rather than experience. I am the kind of person who would try anything once. I also would like to say that I find a lot of pleasure in both more mundane things, or even some of the most extreme things you can think of. It really comes down to pleasing my partner.

One thing I want you to know, dear gorgeous reader, is that I am actually submissive. My goal everytime in the bed is to please you. I will be more than pleased if I am pleasuring you. My personal kinks can be discussed in private, but first and foremost, I believe your kinks to be of higher priotity.

To be ultra clear:

I am looking for a woman, under 35, who lives approximately in the same time zone as me in the UK, and is looking for something more long term. I am only set to be in the UK until the end of spring, but this is very easily extended (I already have the visa for it), but I am also just as happy to move somewhere else in Europe come autumn time.

If you are unsure and just want to chat with me, or what to see a picture of me first, I am happy to chat and/or send a pic of myself! Thank you for reading!

(Also I know a bit of spanish and a very very small amount of german)