Greetings, I'm Theo. That's not my real name, but it's what my friends call me. For privacy, I will share my photo and my name in our first messages! I apologize in advance for the lengthy post, I'm a writer and a self published author so it's hard for me to be succinct when it's about a topic I like.
About me:
6'1, white male. I am a big guy. I'm losing weight (down over 30 lbs so far) but I'm still a chonker! I'm located in Northeast TN. I'm poly and partnered. I am a massive nerd. I'm talking video games, dnd, the whole nine. I immensely enjoy nerd culture in general, and learning about other people's passions. One of my biggest hobbies (and my only source of income) is my writing, and I actually run D&D games for a living! Most of my work is for my dnd campaigns, but I write horror, fantasy, and adult smutty fiction. I've teen told I'm quite good!
I love animals, and one of my top ten desires is to be able to hug a bear without getting mauled to death. I don't know how that would happen, but I want it to. I'd also pet a moose or a hippo if they also both weren't incredibly dangerous land animals. I'm an animal lover, but I'm not an idiot.
I've been called funny quite a bit, and I love to make people laugh. I'm a bit of a people pleaser, but I definitely stick up for myself. I will never force anyone to do anything they don't want to do, and I won't ever send unsolicited inappropriate images.
Consent is extremely important to me, and I always ask, especially when getting to know someone, before touching them or asking anything risque.
Note: I am an atheist, and a leftist. Politics are important to me but don't have to be to you. It's okay if you're witchy or spiritual though. I find it interesting, even though I don't believe in it.
I'm disabled, and I don't make a ton of money, but I make enough to make due. I don't make much, but fortunately I have a lot of disposable income because I have very few bills. I'm currently studying programming, game design, and cloud engineering to have better employment opportunities. I'm unlikely to want children, but if you are truly special it might be a possibility one day. Ask me about it.
I am a switch. That means I like being both dominant and submissive. More information in the kinks section!
What I'm looking for:
I am not picky with physical appearance at all, or age (18 ) for that matter. What matters is how we get along!
I want someone who is searching for friends, companionship, that hopefully leads to more. I try not to rush into real relationships, as it hasn't worked out in the past. Preferably you will be local, but I am ok with Online as long as we have plans to close the gap at some point, especially if we visit occasionally. I do have a high sex drive, but thankfully, due to the nature of poly relationships, you don't have to have a high drive!
Hopefully you are nerdy, nice, genuine, and affectionate. You appreciate kind words and gestures, and reciprocate touch. I want to find a real connection, someone I can call my genuinely best friend who is always in my corner, and I always have their back too. I value kindness and empathy to a large degree.
Please be good at communication, and reciprocate the energy that you receive in messages and in person. I'm not asking for novels or 24/7 texting, but I like to send a good morning/ good night text and see how people are doing generally speaking. Constant one word answers and no effort, while having me carry the entire conversation gets old after a while.
If you've read this far, by all means, send me a message! I'm open to chatting to see if we click! :)
Kinks
This section contains nsfw content beneath it! This is your warning!
My kinks
So first of all, I am a switch. I have a lot of experience being a dom, but I would love to explore my submissive side. I won't go into all of my interests here, but I can do some overview on each role. These are not exhaustive. I've probably forgotten some.
General kinks (regardless of role): Free use, overt interest, breeding, orgasm control (forced/edged), praise, primal play, bondage.
Dom: I'm a pleasure dom. So I'm all about making you feel good. That means going down, praising, and using your kinks to please you.Basically, I enjoy pleasing my partner, and making sure they are having a very good time. If you're having a great time, I'm having an amazing time. I can go into details on how I do this, but I'll leave it up to you to ask for that.
I enjoy DD/LG, Cg/L, and more.
I can hard dom too! I'm realizing I have a bit of a sadist streak, emotional sadism especially. I'm good at degrading.
Sub:
I don't have a ton of experience as a sub, but I really enjoyed it when I have done it. I'm interested in gentle/soft fdom, especially mommy dom, but it isn't a requirement by any means. I love praise, being told what to do, free use, being shared, encouragement, reassurance, and cuddles. I probably have a lot more to add to this list as I discover them, but that's the gist! (Explicit descriptions)Especially being ridden, called good boy, combined with breeding. It's my favorite combination ever. <3 I also love being pegged.
Curious about: I'm willing to try most things (barring my limits, see below) but I'm most curious about pegging, pain (giving more than receiving), degradation, receiving bondage, and probably way more than I can think of honestly. Again, if I haven't tried it, I'm most likely willing to!
Limits:
I have very few limits, but they are watersports (not on me), scat (at all), anything illegal, no actual damage or anything permanent. Also sounding. I've not experimented with pain, and would have to really trust you to do so. I'm not interested in being cucked but I might enjoy hotwifing.
If you've read this far and think we'd click, send me a message! I'm excited to hear from you!
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