About me: A 27-year old PhD candidate based in upper Manhattan, living that grad school life of grading exams and hammering out research (can you Dom me harder than my dissertation already has?). I love hiking, spending time in parks, and exploring different parts of the city. I'm a big movie fan, from the highbrow classics to some atrocious, so-bad-they're-good cult treasures. My geekier interests include history, language, and data science - I love a good trivia contest! Friends tell me I'm a really good cook, but you'll just have to be the judge of that yourself :)

Vitals: 5'11", 165 lbs, academic / softboi vibes. COVID vaxxed. Fully clothed pictures here: https://ibb.co/album/HCb4Yq 

About you: Dominant or dommely switch, approximately my age, living in New York City (meeting in person locally is important to me!) with nerdy interests you're willing to share with me! I have a weakness for people who are affectionate as well as evil. Like, you can be cruel to me, but only as a way of showing you like me! I'm usually, but not exclusively, attracted to women

What I'm looking for: Consistent connection, ideally (though not necessarily) a long term relationship with D/s undertones. Regardless, it's very important to me that we enjoy spending time together outside of kink.

Kink: Submission lets me turn off my brain and reorients all of my priorities around following my partner As a sub, I'm obedient and so, so eager to please. My kinks center on power exchange. I crave feeling helpless, overwhelmed, and (gently) humiliated - I'm happiest when I'm begging incoherently. I'm a bit of a masochist, in that pain and sensation highlights my partner's power over me. I'd also really like to explore behavioral training / conditioning with a trusted partner.

Mostly a sub, but I can occasionally switch (or at least service top), too! I'm happy to talk about more specific kinks (I sort of have a thing for boots) and limits in detail. I'm not a total newbie, but I'm not very experienced, either. Physical affection is important for me, so cuddly aftercare is a necessity and a pleasure.

Kink is fascinating - I'd love to explore it with someone on the other side of the slash. So, if you're looking for a doting pet, a willing victim, and/or a partner in exploration, please drop me a chat or message and tell me a bit about yourself!