To preface, I'm not looking for anything too serious or a relationship on here as I don't have the chance to talk or play every day. That said, I am open to (and more interested in) something that could become a longer term thing since that obviously gives us the best opportunity to explore each other's kinks and interests. Absolutely not interested in anything financial and I do not show my full face in pics (happy to show off the rest of myself though).

About Me

Basic info: 31 years old, 5'9", 150-160 lbs, fairly skinny but I keep myself in decent shape with running and basic exercise. I have plenty of (mostly NSFW) pictures of me in my post history if you are so inclined. Located in the US (eastern time zone), but open to most any location. I travel a fair bit for work as well, primarily to Western Europe and North America. Not necessarily looking for anything IRL except for maybe down the road if we are a good match. I'm most often available fairly late at night in eastern time and sometimes during the work day if I'm feeling distracted at work.

I have a technical focused office job at a large corporation in a male dominated line of work. My day to day life doesn't allow a lot of room for exploration of my own identity/presentation or kinks, so one of the things I look for online is a chance to explore that aspect of myself and expand my boundaries in that regard. What I'd be looking for in a domme is someone who wants to explore my submissive & feminine side and shares some of my kinks. Ideally we'll also have some shared interests so we can chat about more than just sex.

SFW Interests/Hobbies:

• Music - I'm a big fan of pop punk, emo, etc., so hopefully you at least like some of that music. I find goth and alt style to be incredibly attractive so bonus points if that's your vibe. I also enjoy a variety of other genres, so if that's not your jam we might still find some common ground (I've been known to enjoy some jazz, prog, metal, rap, pop, and hell even some country)! I play several instruments as well which is one of my biggest hobbies (primarily guitar).
• Video Games - Lately I play a lot of single player games, rouguelites, and metroidvanias.
• Reading - Mostly into science fiction & fantasy. Think Dune, ASOIAF, Sanderson, etc.
• Movies/TV - Of course I enjoy movies & TV shows as well (more on the "prestige TV" side).
• Exercise - I have been getting into running lately as a way to keep my body looking the way I like it & help both my mental and physical health. I also enjoy a good hike now and then.

NSFW Interests/Kinks:

• Kinklist: https://imgur.com/XrsoiHl
• Crossdressing/feminization - I go back and forth between feeling like a cis guy, femboy, sissy, and have even considered that I might be genderfluid. The bottom line is I enjoy exploring different aspects of my gender identity online only as I enjoy my current lifestyle otherwise.
• Bisexual/heteroflexible threesomes/groups ("forced" bi can be hot too, MMF, FFM, etc.) - possibly open to a CNC aspect of this as well, but I'm more into the seduction/temptation/obedience side of things than the actual non-con side of things.
• Pegging/Anal/Plugs - Obviously a huge fan.
• Public/Sneaky - Into lots of varieties of this kink, whether it's wear a plug under my clothes, driving around dressed up, being sneaky at work or a friend's house, or even getting naughty in a park, theater, or car. This could include basic humiliation if I am made to reveal something or caught - but the humiliation aspect of it is only a fantasy and not something I think I would want to ever do IRL.
• Very into the lighter side of BDSM, not so much the more intense stuff - I love the idea of getting tied up, choking, spanking, spit, collared, etc. Not so into anything too heavy on the pain/control side.
• Open to lots of different taboo scenario types - incest, cuck/cheatinghotwife, exhibitionism, etc.

My Ideal Domme:

The #1 most important thing I'm looking for is someone who wants to push me to explore different kinks/limits but always respects limits & is willing to shift gears if either of us is not enjoying something. Ideally we'll have a few interests in common so we have some non-sexual things to talk about. It would be best if you are most often available during the late hours of the night/wee hours of the morning in US eastern time zone (you can be located anywhere, just be available to chat in those hours). It's okay if you're not available to chat every day, and you need to be okay if I'm not available to chat every day because my schedule, responsibilities, etc. likely won't allow that sometimes.

If you've made it this far, thanks for reading the whole post. Hopefully I sound like someone you'd like to chat with more. I'm happy to start out chatting on Reddit, but long term would prefer to move to a different platform like Discord, Kik, or even email.