What I'm looking for: I'm a submissive, but I'm not the type to just submit to anyone. I need some sort of connection to be attracted to someone, romantic, platonic or otherwise. "Trust before obedience" is pretty important for me. In short, I want to at least get to know each other before doing anything erotic. Doing calls is basically a must.

When it comes to kink, I'm open to doing videocalls and all sort of things. The way it looks will sort of depend on what kinks we want to explore, there's fun apps for a more general control outside of calls and texting for example.

Appearance: I'm 24, 6'0" foot/1.85 m. I have long brown hair, greyish blue eyes, white skin, a beard and a relatively fit body type. I am to work out every other day (studying has made that difficult), mostly focusing on weights and cardio. You can find two pictures of me here (heads up, one shirtless.)

SFW Interests: I enjoy reading a lot, mostly fantasy with the occasional mix of more classic literature and sci fi as well as the occasional romance. I play video games every so often and I run a weekly game of Dungeons & Dragons for my friends. I also like going out for drinks and meeting new people.

I'm currently going to a university of applied science for archeology and live in Deventer.

As a heads up, I can get rather busy with my studies and social activities, so depending on the week I may only be available for a handful of days.

I'm natively Dutch, but find writing long texts easier in English.

NSFW Interests: I'm open to a lot of kinks, and unless I'm grossed out by the mere thought of something, I'm sure to give anything a try once. There are a few things I know I enjoy, or that I'm eager to try.

• Bondage: Particularly love rope but any sort of restraint will make me melt. I practise a decent amount of self bondage.
• Praise: Good boy and other such lovely phrases.
• Humiliation: The other side of the coin. Recently discovered how much I enjoy it.
• Punishment: Pain, humiliation or some other negative repercussion for a task done wrong or a rule not followed.
• Voice: his is a strange one, and more of an attraction than a kink. I love people's voices, how someone sounds tends to be more important than what someone looks like for me.

There's others as well, but I don't want to make this list too long and I'd much rather discuss kinks than list them out, I find that each person tends to view a certain kink in their own special way. I'm also interested in hearing your kinks and interests, and the sort of things you'd like to do. Relationships as this should be a two way street after all, perhaps a slanted street, inclined in the domme's favor.

Conclusion: Message me if interested, let me know what drew you to this post, and what you look for in a connection.