Hi there!

I am 25 yo switch/sub, and I am looking to connect with some Dominant counterpart or with some other switch as well.

I am from Italy. I am looking for something online, which maybe can escalate IRL (if we really click and the distance permits that). What I am exactly looking for could be:

• a play partner
• a friend
• a Domme
• someone to have a nice chat with

What I can be for you instead is:

• a play partner
• a friend
• a submissive [or a fellow switch, if this appeals to you]
• one to have nice chats with and talk about kinky stuff, interesting nerdy topics, deep stuff or just life

About me (in brief)

• I am 25 yo and I am from Italy
• In my daily life I am a professional, I recently graduated and right now I am pursuing my career. I invest a lot in that because I like what I do. I would consider myself ambitious
• I am nearly 1.80m tall, neither slim neither chubby body type (I keep myself in decent shape, even if I am not a sport & fitness person), dark blonde/brown hair, blue eyes. I usually like to present myself well dressed and clean
• I could be described as a mental person and as an introvert who is highly driven by my own energy peaks. To strangers I often appear formal and a bit detached. Once you know me (and I trust you) I will probably (slowly) introduce you to my own world, made by the things I like, my thoughts and many salty jokes. If you know what it means, tests say I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously).
• I have a bunch of interests I like to cultivate mainly by myself. Many of them would fit in what some may call "nerdy stuff" (not necessarily in the stereotypical sense, but more in the sense that it's stuff I tend to to deep dive into)
• The things I love the most are moments for myself and deep talks. Not much a fun of loud places and people who do too much pointless small talk
• I would say I am one that generally looks for connections, even if I am not traditionally affective and I tend to open up very gradually

About me (kinkly)

Kinkly, I am a switch. I recognise my "default attitude" is the Dom, but I can, I like and I want to submit. As an attitude I would say I am a bit of a brat, not much in the sense I violate rules (quite the opposite instead, I am eager to obey and I will do anything to be a good boy), but more in the sense I like to tease and I occasionally may look (respectfully) assertive and stubborn. Usually, when I submit it's because of a mine intentional choice, or because you found those mine 2-3 buttons that when clicked shut down my brain (oh please do it, sometimes I definitely need it).

My main kinks are: orgasm control, tease and denial (the chastity idea teases me even if I never implemented it), spanking, hit play in general, some pain in general (if put in the right mood I can become a little masochist and beg for it, I love clamps), sensation play in general (I like the idea creative ways to tease the body), oral (potentially on both of us), anal (if you are interested, in both of us), pegging, bondage, a bit of discipline, tasks and orders, worshipping you and putting your pleasure first, being humiliated (better if gently, but sometimes also a bit less gently) and praised, doing my best to be a good boy, sometimes having a bit of a bratty attitude just to melt at your first look or word.

Limits: extreme pain, blood, permanent, any body liquid (except spit and cum, that instead could be added to the kinks), strong degradation and humiliation, extreme pet play, age regression, findom, privacy, blackmail, interfering with private life, sending pictures that may compromise privacy, text only (to establish and maintain trust I would like we could prove each other we exist, we are real and we are not just a wall of text).

A small note about being a switch: bI like to both dominate and submit. If you are 100% dominant, with you will be 100% submissive. If you are a switch as well, I could be both dominant and submissive. If you approach me as a switch and you already start with the idea of assuming the dominant role, if you state it it's better, so my inner "leading" Dom will stay quieter :). Essentially, until we talk clearly this will not be an issue!

What I am looking for (and what could I offer)

As I said in my intro, I am looking for a Dom (or switch) counterpart to connect with, have nice talks, have sex chats, maybe setup Dom-sub dynamics and - maybe maybe - meet IRL if we really click and the distance permits us.

Ideally,

• Your age is between 20-30, better if close to mine (which is 25)
• You are preferably located in Europe, even better if in Italy or close to it
• You are a person who has your own life sort out, better if you are doing something you are fierce about (it can be study, a job you like, a project, a passion, etc. I guess this will help connect with me). Great if you are somewhat ambitious
• You are a person open to dialogue, who likes to talk, listen, discuss, share ideas and go beyond the superficial small talk
• You are a Domme or a switch with a dominant side. Probably my favourite dynamic is gentl-ish, but I may also like a more "strict" approach, given there is connection, respect and dialogue.

(Note: all those are just "ideal" things, they are not a checklist and regardless of how many boxes are "checked" what matters to me is the person as a whole. The only real hard requirement is you are on or above legal age for mine and your country)

a few final (more or less serious) bonus points to choose me and not another one among the 1000

• I like to dress shapely and be "on poin", so you may often get pics of how cute is your good boy
• Since I am a bit of a nerd and I have my pool of interest I deep dive in, once we know a bit you will receive from me many nice random facts you may not be aware about
• kinkwise, I am a bit of a whore and when you find and click my 2-3 buttons you will see how this serious and a bit stubborn figure can become a little needy thing you can pilot like it's a videogame
• I am a person you can talk with and not just play, who loves introspection and deep dialogues

If you reached here, thank you! I am happy I caught your attention. If you want to go further and know me, I will wait for a your Dm here on Reddit (I may not answer immediately because of time zones and job, but I will reply you as soon as possible). Hope to hear from you!