I remember watching some stand-up - Not well, it will become obvious - where the comedian talked about meeting "the one". I don't remember who the comedian was, which is honestly super uncharacteristic of me.. But they joked about how unrealistic it was to meet "the one", or even have just "one true love". Like what if I'm in Oregon and my "one" is an old man in rural China. How screwed am I?

So they said it was more likely there were several "ones", and they just wanted to find one of them.

Whatever you believe, I'd love to find one. Someone I can trust and be vulnerable with; laugh, grow, mutually support... and yeah, get kinky, too. I'm fascinated by people and the subjects they're into; I've several subjects I'm passionate about myself: healthcare, equity, gaming of all sorts, people, humor, history, decor, cats. I can and WILL find something mesmerizing about anyone and anything. I'll plunge the depths of many topics and experiences, and then when I move on to the next I'll start wondering about the connections between everything I've previously explored and this new glittering facet of life.

Putting aside the flowery language, I'll get down to brass tacks:. 41 male as mentioned, 200 lb, 5'10, white, glasses and a beard. It's red and brown and black and grey. My ears, tongue, and labret are pierced. No tattoos yet. Working on getting back into proper shape.

I'm a professional working on his master's. Very stable, but actively seeking and open to adventure. I spent the last year traveling for conferences and personal pleasure, I don't even know how many flights.. 25 or 30. I'm extremely friendly and, I've discovered during my travels, outgoing. I have a dozen close friends I've known for a decade and a half, and many newer friends and acquaintances as well. Can't help it. I'm a dragon and my treasure of choice is people.

As for kinks.. It feels a little gauche to talk about the specifics here after all of that heartfelt exposition, but needless to say I'm into a lot of the typical sub male stuff and the enchanting nature of new subjects extends to the realm of kink. We can talk about the details sooner, or later, but first thing's first...

You've gotta say hello!