Hello! I'm a kind and soft guy looking for a long term/forever partner to share life with. I'm looking for a monogamous romantic relationship, which would be generally equal in daily life.

About me

Personality wise I would say that I'm a compassionate and wholesome person who sometimes can be a bit stubborn. I care a lot about people around me. I'm a bit shy but that will (mostly) fade when we get to know each other. In everyday life I'm overall a pretty calm person that usually isn't that impulsive. My personality type is ENFP, although extrovert is just over 50%. My ethnicity is Caucasian, I have blue eyes and my height is about 183cm. I'm slim and not that muscular. (Would love to exchange pictures in private.) My love language is mainly physical touch, I basically love everything hugging or cuddling.

A couple of hobbies and interest of mine are cars, games, making pizza, electronics and F1. I'm also learning to play (electric) guitar which is somewhat progressing, I'm now at a point where I can play some songs.

I'm still a student and I’m currently in my third year with about 1,5 year to go. I live in the northern part of the Netherlands. I would like an in person relationship so it would be great if you live in the Netherlands or in Germany near the border. Talking online is not one of my strengths so I would like to meet in real life as soon as possible but of course only when we both feel comfortable with each other. Furthermore, I’m a native Dutch speaker and I speak English as a second language.

What I'm looking for

I don't really have a strong preference for age. I don't mind if you are younger or older then me although I would prefer it if you are still in your twenties as well. I don’t have a strong preference for body type although I’m not really attracted to someone plus size. Furthermore, personality wise I'm attracted to someone who is independent, confident and a bit assertive. In general I want someone with who I can have fun and laugh with.

Kinks

I must say that I’m a bit new to D/s relationships, or kinks in general to some regard, but I’m open to explore. Due to my lack of experience my list may not be fully exhaustive but feel free to ask if you have questions. In general I tend to lean more towards the gentle side.

Kinks I like: lingerie, teasing, (light) bondage, orgasm control

Hard limits: Anything permanent, blood, scat, forced bi, needles

I tried to fill in the kinklist, I don’t know if I filled everything in correctly but I think it somewhat gets the point across. At least it's a little more comprehensive than the list above. https://i.imgur.com/h8xeVft.png

Thank you for reading, if you think we would be a good match then please send me a message. I would love to talk to you and get to know you.