Evening, Reddit! How's everybody doing this chilly night? I hope you had a great Christmas and New Year, or whatever holidays you celebrate over the winter. I know I did, I got a few fun toys for Christmas (ok, fine, I bought them for myself and used Christmas as an excuse but close enough), maybe you could tell me how to use them? 😉

About me - SFW Edition

I'm 29 and based in Edinburgh. I spend most days sitting on my ass writing code from my home to make my boss more money. In many ways, I'm a pretty stereotypical software engineer; I like video games, sci-fi shows and fantasy novels but I also like to try to flex my creative muscles when I can. Sometimes that's making games in a game jam, other times it's working on my writing or doing a bit of painting (ok, it's painting my nerdy little Warhammer army guys but it still counts) while listening to music (usually some kind of metal but I like most genres to some degree).

As for my looks, I'm 6'0 (that's around 184cm for you sensible folks on the continent) with a beard and glasses. For those that are looking for a guy with a 6 pack, well, I'm sorry to disappoint but I'm more of the dad bod kinda shape. Although, part of my new year resolution is to get into shape so maybe that'll change soon (it won't, new year resolutions never last a month and we all know it). I'm happy to exchange SFW pictures but I'd rather not stick them in this post for privacy reasons.

About me - NSFW Edition

Well, this is the part you came here for. To put a not too fine point on it, I'm a sub (shocking, I know) and a kinky one at that. A non-exhaustive list of things I enjoy are humiliation, performing tasks, orgasm control (including edging and denial), chastity, pegging, cross-dressing/ feminisation, cuckolding, light to medium CBT and general BDSM. If you're into to any of those, great, if not, totally fine, I'm sure we can find some things we both enjoy. I don't have many hard limits, I guess the main ones are scat, anything that leaves permanent marks and anything illegal. Outside of that, I'm open to exploring!

I own a few toys, the main ones being a dildo, a chastity cage and a remote controlled vibrating buttplug (yes, it can be controlled through the internet). If you're interested in taking the metaphorical keys to any of them (or literal key if you're local), I'm sure we can figure something out 😉.

What I'm looking for

I'm open to a lot of different dynamics but I think my ideal situation would be something local and in person with somebody between the ages of 25 and 35. Don't be dissuaded from messaging if you're a bit further away or outside of that age range though, as long as the time zones sync up decently and the attraction is there I'm happy for it to be something online too. It would also be nice to submit to somebody who shares some of my interests. A friend I can talk about life with shortly before she pegs me would be ideal.

So, hopefully there was something in this long winded post that caught your eye! If so, send me a message and let's have some fun!