Lifelong submissive, seeking that undeniable chemistry with a twist we all like here.

I have been drawn to power dynamics and the things I later learned symbolized power exchanges (as well as some of the aesthetic, although I’m fluid in that regard, power vibes are power vibes).

I work in software for a small firm that provides for flexibility and working remotely.

I try to get in some daily exercise with multiple walks outside of the office, get to the gym or riding my bicycle. (I bounce between wanting to be a muscular Himbo or a svelte endurance athlete. Though the former seems to be the natural phenotype).

I’m greatly drawn to those who are passionate about, their kink, hobbies, and able to express why (the devil in the details). I find those who dive into the deep end with their interests recognize nuance, and the infinite ways to look at things.

I’m attracted to all presentations in a partner. Waspy, edgy, earthy, jocks, a mix of all of those and more. My “type” frankly, is dominant. That can come in so many different types of packaging.

I would like to find someone for an FLR that would ramp up naturally over time, exploring and building that deep bond through power exchange. But with life, sometimes the dial has to be turned back, yet the average seamlessly becomes higher and easier to maintain. I love knowing what my partner loved, appreciates, and expects. Being able to do those big and little things you that will make you think of me 😊. While conversely, thinking about you when I’m doing them!

I have experience with many kinks, rope, impact (whips, canes, I hate thuddy but it all has its place in the symphony), clamps, etc.. Strangely I haven’t done much gear play, although I have been in some predicament rope scenes. Punishment and funishment are definitely separate, but again, have their part in the symphony of building a power exchange relationship.

Please feel reach out if you are looking for that honest to goodness, natural top down dynamic.