My name is Markus. I’m a 32 year old submissive guy from Denmark. I work as a chef, or line cook, I think the english term might be. We don’t distinguish the term in Danish. I love food, it's both my proffesionel life and one of my biggest hobbies. Everything from fancy high end stuff to good home cooked meals, I wanna eat it all! In my spare time I’m quite a geek. I love books, video games, board games, that kind of stuff. I listen to a lot of podcasts, everything from current politics, to history, to stuff related to my hobbies and audio dramas. My all time favourite hobby is Magic the Gathering which I have been playing since I was 13. I spent some time in University before deciding it wasn't for me. I studied both physics and then history of religion. I wasn't a very good student, but at least it left me with a pretty broad knowledge base for trivia games :D I live on my own with my two cats at the outskirts of Copenhagen.
Physically I'm tall, average build maybe a little on the heavy side. I try to go to the gym one or two times per week. Mostly so my work doesn't fuck up my back, but being more physically fit would be nice as well. My hair is some mix of blonde and red, I have a short beard that's definitely red. I wear glasses and generally like to dress pretty relaxed. Jeans, hoodie, t-shirt with something nerdy or silly on it. I do like getting fancy for the right occasion though.
I have a few requirements that are deal breakers for me, so I'm gonna put them early. You must be willing to verify in a manner we agree on. I will of course do the same. I'd prefer someone at least in Europe. I'm looking for something long term and with potential to become something serious, so both timezones and the option to meet irl means something to me. Not that you should feel pressured to meet right away or anything, I'm happy to take things slow I'm not looking for a findom or anything remotely like financial dominantion. I'm monogamous and so are you.
As for kinks, I have quite a few. Pegging/assplay is definitely my favourite and edging is among the top as well :D Other things I really enjoy are being teased, slight embarrassment, CFNM, toys(especially leashes), being watched and generally receiving attention, praise, being objectified and treated like a toy, and public play. I'm also very open minded, and more than happy to experience new things!
Anyway! I’ve always found difficult to describe what i bring to a dynamic, part because every dynamic is different, and part because I have a hard time putting myself into words on a page :D But here goes. I’m not a “porn sub” or slave. I’m not a little boy. I’m definitely not submissive because I’m a lesser human being or worthless. I am a good/cute boy. I love knowing that I’m pleasing my partner by being theirs to toy with, or by doing cute gestures for them. I think I engage with my partner as an equal when we talk or do something together, but always knowing it’s kind of a facade that you can tear down at any time with a command. I’m not gonna crawl around on the floor and worship the ground you walk on 24/7, but I will adore and worship my domme when it’s called for. I want to serve and I crave being used! I don’t if that makes sense, it was a bit rambley!
A quick list of hard limits: Heavy humiliation, permanent damage, blood, fire, long term chastity, anything involving friends or family, scat, ageplay.
Hope I caught your interest! Maybe we can talk about your favorite meal, book, video game, hobby, or whatever else you'd like so we can get to know each other.
Yours truly, Markus. (Hopefully a much more meaningful phrase in the future ;)
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