Hiya!

Thanks for taking a second to check out my ad, I hope it resonates with you! If so, definitely shoot me a message and let’s chat! No pressure. Looking for the right person and happy to be patient in that process.

As the title suggests, I’m a sub-leaning switch looking for an illustrious partner to devote my time to! I’m 25, 5’10”, 160lbs (and quite fit), based in California, and am a horrible workaholic (but I love my job!). Quite demisexual so connection is a must. I prefer to reserve honorifics for the person who deserves them, so please don’t expect me to be a “good little sub”, address you a certain way, send pics or videos of me, etc. until we’ve at LEAST had a phone call and exchanged SFW photos! Let’s be humans for a moment and not sacks of meat please.

I have a degree in communications and a minor in outdoor recreation programming (both of which I use daily at work). I love to read, watch movies, go hiking, rock climb (mostly outdoors but also in the gym), and mountain bike. I LOVE to cook and it’s probably my biggest non-work related hobby (my work is my play! but, maybe you can change that?).

Kink-wise, there’s a lot to be said but expect the usual suspects from what you can infer. I’d prefer to have a conversation with you first before telling you all the things we’ll use and all the places we’ll put them. But, if it helps, I’m quite open to most relevant things! (Terms and conditions do apply, limits are HARD limits for a reason.)

About you: You’re at least my age, preferably older, and no more than 50 (willing to make exceptions for an exceptional woman). You work a stable job, have hobbies, friends, are driven by more than just money, and love to laugh! I also have 2 cats who I adore more than almost anything or anyone in the world so you must be pet-friendly. Play your cards right and you can meet them!

If any of this spoke to you, come speak to me! Expect to share photos and have a phone call reasonably soon after we start talking. I hope you have a great weekend and I look forward to hearing from you!