I'm 26 years old and live in the NY/NJ area. I'm a weightlifter with niche interests who works too much. I believe the kids today refer to this as a grind-maxing hypertrophy-pilled careercel. Open to both something casual online, or a monogamous relationship in person, I'm searching first and foremost for a solid platonic base upon which to build. Rapport and trust are important for us both, and the NSFW stuff is a lot more fun with someone you have actually gotten to know and genuinely like.

At this point, I could run through the generic list of white guy physical attributes but everyone has exaggerated those descriptions out of meaning, so I'm not gonna do that. If you talk with me for a day and we vibe, I'll verify with a shirtless picture, or a couple if you want. I think that is a fair balance between privacy and showing you what I look like early on. I am Caucasian, have hair, and when I buy pants the waist is taken in, not out. I am over 6 feet tall. I do ask that you verify as well (after I do so). And of course, if you aren't feeling it after I verify, then no hard feelings.

I love fitness. Weightlifting is my biggest hobby, supplemented by reading, and watching movies. I enjoy hiking, but that's hard to do in a city. When I vacation, I always try to spend time outdoors. A dream vacation of mine would be to go fishing for halibut in Alaska.

Some of the qualities I appreciate it others are dark humor, the ability to see issues from multiple perspectives, kindness, and a drive to succeed. I'd love to hear about any special skills or talents you have. I also enjoy a friendly debate. I have a pretty demanding professional life, so sometimes I am limited in my ability to reply quickly. On the bright side, that means I'll value the time we spend together even more.

I'll keep the NSFW section brief. I enjoy orgasm control, playful teasing and degradation, physical pain, anal play, and facesitting. I have always wanted to be dominated by a woman much smaller than me. Open to trying most stuff. I'm not interested in serious emotional sadism. Physical pain is great, but emotional pain is generally not. I have no interest in cuckoldery, hurting my penis, seerioisly risking my privacy, permanent injury, scat (ironically I am of German descent), or bringing a third person into our dynamic. I will not send pics of my face. There may be some stuff I'm forgetting, but this is a Reddit personal ad and not a health insurance contract, so we shall forgive scrivener's errors that appear.

You are between 21-30, in the US, are ok with my limits, and have some kinks in common. You're body type ranges from slender to median to athletic. You are an open-minded critical thinker.

DM'ing can be hard, and I do enjoy being helpful when I can, so here are some ideas if you get writer's block: you could respond to my post with a DM following a similar format, you could tell me about a controversy in your field, you could tell me an unpopular (non political) opinion you have about a topic, your favorite kind of sushi, send me a sampling of your favorite memes, or anything else you want.

I hope to hear from you soon. Sorry if I don't respond right away, as I refuse to download the Reddit app. Have a wonderful day!