You'd think after writing a few of these id be used to it but.

Hello, I'm Kyan a 33 yo Male in the state of New Jersey. I'll just say out the gate that I am new to subbing and kink in general but with the help of both reddit and some discord servers I have really come to find happiness in embracing my nature as a submissive. Technically I am a switch leaning sub but its pretty rare for me to be in a dominant mood and for the sake of simplicity I'm far more sub and quite happy to be.

I am looking for someone who fits the MommyDom archetype so to speak I really enjoy words of praise and gentle caring reassurance lots of good boys and such but also once we're in the mood or scene or what have you I also enjoy a little more sadism from my Domme you are in control and in the moment degradation and humiliation and the like can make me just shiver.

People usually do a section on kinks in these things so I guess here goes of course like I said im still new and exploring and open to try pretty much anything with the right person.

Anyway kinks: Feet/foot worship - just getting it out of the way I have a pretty bad foot fetish so please be something your comfortable with sorry it's just how I'm wired Praise - I have discovered I am a huge praise slut and love good boys and similar words and by extension am task oriented I thrive and enjoy when you lay out things for me to do in a direct task reward relationship Exhibitionism/ Voyeurism - What can I say I enjoy watching being watched the risk of being caught obviously still exploring this aspect but it turns me on Body writing - Probably the thing I was least expecting but after a task was given to me I found it oddly exciting bonus points for something on me that we keep hidden from public like if I just had Mommy's Whore on my stomach or forearm throughout the work day and no one would ever know it excites me Humiliation - As I mentioned earlier I love playing that role of the flustered red faced squirmy little boy who gets all hot for Mommy I probably play into more than I should but I love that "shame" feeling from doing something naughty when you encourage it Degradation - Hand in hand with the last in the moment if you go the route of telling me I'm a disgusting naughty pervert you can really get me there

Honestly though like I said I have barely scratched the surface and I'm excited to explore all manner of fantasy with you but I should mention I have a pretty firm limit on Ab/dl stuff I'm not into scat gore self harm or any of that super intense stuff I don't really ever see myself getting there either.

But that's enough talking about the kink truth is I'm looking for a long term relationship that just also happens to include a "dynamic". So please bear in mind we don't have to start with that in mind but my long term intentions include a long term partner so please be atleast open to the idea.

With that in mind I guess let's finally talk about me because we're both hopefully interested in more than just kink and I would like to build a relationship on those foundational things. To start I am an unapologetic nerd I love all things nerdy I am actually even trying to grow a small buisness selling trading cards for now and would like to ideally pursue opening a brick and mortar location some day. I am a huge animal lover and frequent trips to the zoo and or aquarium are some of my favorite activities. Ive been getting more into music as I get older especially like punk and folk punk real independent garage band type sounds but I'm also very much that listens to anything kinda guy. I'd love to get more involved in some local scenes so if your the type of person who knows this awesome little group playing at the bar this weekend then I wanna tag along with you. Movies and reading may as well be the bingo card free space of "hobbies" but hey worth a mention anyway big into fantasy scifi superheroes basically anything super natural or out of this world so sorry if your idea of good television is some "reality" slop I genuinely can't pretend to care.

This is getting long and there's so much more to say but I'll try to end it with out too much rambling I'd love to meet you and get to know you and I really hope to hear from you soon. If I can leave on a high note hey atleast my job is interesting and provides me a semi decent supply of cute animal pictures so maybe I can pique your interest with a picture of a cute baby piggy snuggled into my beard like come on its a baby pig ♡

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Hoping to hear from you soon -Kyan

Ps. I know it's marked as M4F but if your non binary MtF or anything in between dont be afraid to reach out I'm an open and accepting guy and can we discuss our comforts if you don't conform into neat little boxes ya know.