Happily married ENM man, looking to establish an ongoing D/s dynamic with a Dominant Woman or Couple. I’ve been playing as a sub off and on for 30 years. I know enough to know that every D-type has different expectations & requirements of their subs. I’m looking for someone who wants to train & mold me into their perfect plaything. I want to find someone who ylets me feel safe enough to shut off my brain so I can become the mindless servant/slut/toy that I need to be. About me, 5’11. Shaved head, blue collar worker. Totally masculine presenting. 190(ish) pounds. Very liberal politically. I won’t play with conservatives. Lots of hobbies including fiber arts, woodworking, home brewing, 3D printing, writing smut, and medieval recreation. I’m a social drinker, 420 friendly. Snipped with a clear STI panel. Kink wise I’m into a lot of things including chastity, CBT, sensory deprivation, bondage, human furniture, domestic service, body worship, CFNM, anal, impact/sensation play, behavior modification, degradation/objectification.
Hard limits - permanent marks, blood, scat, age/race play, sounding, the word “sissy”. If you’ve read this far, you may be confused about this post starting with the words “Happily married”. Fair point. I am happily married, but my wife and I both acknowledge that we each have sexual / emotional needs that the other isn’t able to meet. We both date separately outside our marriage with the other’s full knowledge. To the ProDommes & FinDommes, thanks, but don’t waste your time. Financial play gives me the ick. It’s totally a me thing, intellectually, I understand you’re providing a needed service, but I’m not at all interested. I’m a bit of a slow burn, I need to feel safe before I can be slutty, so please don’t come in too hot. Let’s have a conversation before you gag me. Seriously though, let’s get to know each other a bit before we play. Reach out to me here or on Fetlife. My Fet name is Wynnstonn. Lots of pictures and writings both here and on Fet if you’d like to learn a bit more about me. Or you can ask me anything.