hello, I am on her looking for someone i can eventually be in a serious ltr. I am a switch, but I don't need to switch. 90% of my experiences when I have a girlfriend or fwb I stay in one role. I am not currently looking for fwb. I am single and monogamous.

I am adhd, and I like to work. so I spend most of my time doing diy projects. currently, I am learning leather working. If love to make us gear for playing. I have made collars and bracelets so far. I i am also good with woodworking and upholstery and like to make bdsm furniture. I just got a 3d printer, and i am planning to learn how to use that and my leather working skills to make more elaborate stuff. if I am not working on a project. I am pretty nerdy, I like to find a good story. I mostly end up reading fiction, but I definitely enjoy other types of books, anime, and movies. I love stories with good charter development or world building.

Physically i am 5,10 3/4 and I am very salty about not being 5,11 lol. I weigh 150 lbs and work out regularly. I like calisthenics and stretching. I really enjoy being flexible and move my body however I want. Here is a pic https://imgur.com/a/LphQo5j https://imgur.com/a/amRfStv

my long-term plans are to have a family and open my own business. right now, i am saving up for a house and hoping to have kids down the line when i am 100% ready. I definitely don't want kids until I have a house, stable income, and healthy relationship. I find when I am the submissive in a flr. It is much more relaxing, and I like being a service sub. I just come home and turn my brain off. I do what I am told and just focus on ways to make my dom happy and her life more relaxed.

when it comes to kinky stuff. I have been going to events and been part of fetish communities for 10 years, all over the country. I have the most experience with bondage, service sub, and pain play. I prioritize consent, communication, and trust above everything. The best dommes I have had as a dom and as a sub, have been with partner that had 0 experience before meeting me. Top kink is my dom exerting her control over me. My favorite ways are -Updating her throughout the day about little thing -Humiliating tasks -Chastity -Doing chores -Things phrased as commands not questions -Making me physically uncomfortable in what ever way she wants -being told what play we are doing or just doing it, instead of asking. If I have issue I say my safe word(red) -No touching rules and speech Restrictions in person My second favorite is being degraded. My favorite ways to be degraded -Pegging -Being treated like a dog -Being treated like toy -Not being allowed to wear clothes -Writing on my body -Face sitting -Breath play -Bathroom control -Pain play -Having senses taken away- blindfolds, gags, ear plugs, latex suit -Cbt Thing i really enjoy doing -Eating ass -Eating pussy -Facesitting with clothes on -Predicament bondage -Being face fucked -Worshipping my dom body -Licking sweat especially ass sweat. -Being spit on or in my mouth -Making out -Body weight on top of me. Etheir laying or sitting on me -Anal and anal toy. My favorite is anal hook -Collars and leashes -Things that make me moan amd squirm

What i am looking for in a dom. You have to be a us citzen. Someone around my age. I am open but please be at least low thirtys if you are older. Enjoys talking every day. Isnt afraid to meet up in person. Wants kids, is open to relocating and wants a serious realtionship. Not just fun sexting..

thanks for reading. If you're interested in being friends or chatting to see if we would be a good fit, send me a message.😁