Hey! This is my first time writing a personals post, so here goes!

I’m J, 24 from Greater London. I’m a thoughtful, kind, open minded guy. At first, very much a shy person (and look like one according to someone on hinge), but really do open up the better I get to know you.

I won’t post a photo due to the nature of my job (sorry!), but I am 5’11, white with brown hair and blue eyes, quite athletic & I’ve been told I am a “good looking bloke”(My Friends et al. 2024). Vanilla me plays a lot of sports, is attempting to get back into reading, and has a sensible few beverages every so often.

I’ve been working full-time in healthcare since graduating in July. It’s a rewarding, but stressful, environment. This brings me onto why I am here; my love-life has been pretty patchy with exams, moving back in with parents, and adjusting to full-time work. Really hoping to find someone who will turn my world upside down, and scratch that certain itch only d/s dynamics are capable of satisfying.

I have no set goal for what I want from a dynamic, whether it be FWB or a relationship. Firm believer in rolling with the punches life throws, and figuring out from there. Also a firm believer that there’s no such thing as the right person at the wrong time. I’ve had one kinky encounter in the past, which was amazing, and I’ve realised it is something I would love on a more regular basis.

I’m an open book with regards to trying different kinks (within reason), and can discuss in more detail in DMs if anyone is curious.

Who am I looking for? An intelligent, ambitious, caring (but assertive) girl, who keeps themselves in good shape. Ideally between 20-28, from or near to London, who could potentially host (I can drive).

Not particularly interested in an online dynamic, unless it’s with the intention of meeting at some stage. Let’s get to know each-other & maybe grab a coffee sometime.

Thank you for taking the time to read all of that if you made it this far!

J x