Sometimes you just have to take a shot. Who knows, maybe it’ll land. For me, posting this is about stepping out of my comfort zone and seeing where it leads. I want to be upfront: I’ve never been in a relationship before, never kissed anyone, or experienced intimacy. While this makes me new to all of this, I’m open, honest, and eager to learn and grow with the right person.

About Me

Hey, I’m 22 years old and live in Northern Germany.

I’m a calm, quiet person who tends to be more of a listener. It can take me a little time to warm up to new people, but once the ice is broken, I’m open, honest, and enjoy meaningful conversations. I appreciate it when others have the patience to let me find my flow.

I enjoy spending time outdoors and have a deep connection to nature and animals. My dog, whom I share with my mother, is a big part of my life. Growing up on a farm also gave me a strong bond with horses and sparked my interest in agriculture. This connection to the natural world is part of why I’m fascinated by natural sciences.

I enjoy gardening and trying to grow my own vegetables, though my green thumb sometimes has mixed results. Gaming is another way I like to unwind and relax after a busy day. Recently, I’ve also started getting back into working out.

Professionally, I’m a full-time software developer after completing my training. My job offers me flexible hours and the ability to work from home, which I value a lot. While I’m still working toward my goal/dream, I’m confident that I’m on the right path.

I don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs, as these things have never appealed to me.

Honesty, family, and openness are core values for me. I tend to speak directly, even when it might not always be the most appropriate option, because I value truth.

For those curious about my appearance: I’m 1.98m tall, weigh around 80kg, and have a slim to average build. I’d describe myself as fit but not overly muscular, with brown hair, brown eyes, and a beard.

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for a partner aged 20 to 26, ideally from Germany or nearby in Europe, as I value the possibility of meeting in person and building a long-term, real-life relationship. While starting online is fine, I’m not interested in purely online dynamics.

Monogamy is important to me, and I’m not interested in polyamorous relationships. Smoking and drug use are deal-breakers for me, and while occasional alcohol consumption is fine, excessive drinking isn’t something I’m comfortable with. I would also prefer a partner who is working, studying, or be in training.

When it comes to children, I’m currently undecided, but it’s important to me that this option isn’t completely off the table. If someone is absolutely certain they never want children, I don’t think we’d be compatible in the long run.

Physically, I feel drawn to women who are taller and have a slim or average build, as this aligns with my preferences. I prefer a natural look. Small tattoos or piercings are fine, but heavily tattooed or extensively pierced styles aren’t quite for me.

While I’m more reserved and introverted, I think a partner who is slightly more talkative or outgoing could complement well. To show you’ve read this far, let me know your favorite movie or series or what genre you enjoy most.

BDSM Preferences

I don’t have practical experience with BDSM/Femdom or FLR, which makes it hard to define exact preferences. However, I’m open to exploring what works best with the right person. It’s a bit like trying new vegetables as a child. You can only know what you like or not once you’ve tasted it, and the same applies here. For me, a Female-Led Relationship doesn’t have to revolve around BDSM. It could simply involve the partner naturally taking the lead in everyday decisions, setting the tone for the relationship, or assuming a more dominant role.

There are, however, a few things I already know aren’t for me. These include:

• Illegal practices
• ABDL
• Heavy pain
• Blood
• Scat
• Cuckolding
• Bi-related activities
• Findom

If you’re interested in connecting, I’d appreciate a thoughtful and detailed message. Diese kann auch gerne auf Deutsch sein. Please include basic information such as your age, location, and a little about yourself.

To make sure you’ve read my ad, share a joke in your message. It doesn’t have to be dark humor,
though that’s a plus if you enjoy it.
Messages that don’t include the verification, basic details like age and location, or are too short will be ignored.

I value direct and open communication, so I’ll respond as soon as I have time to do so. I’m not interested
in playing time games like waiting hours to reply for the sake of appearances. That’s just not my style.
When I’m online and see your message, I’ll reply as quickly as I can.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you. Let’s see where this could lead.