Looking for a romantic relationship with my best friend. I’d like to leave D/s aspects in the bedroom and just be regular partners outside the bedroom. I’d like us to be first and foremost partners and lovers, with femdom aspects afterwards.

About me:

I work in tech. My job involves some cybersecurity and software development. If you work in tech, maybe we can build some things together.

I also play piano, and cook a lot. At some point I would like to have a side business of selling homemade French pastries out of my home.

I like working out and spending time outside. I am a very good skier, and I like lifting weights. I also really like mountain biking and windsurfing.

Femdom stuff:

In no particular order, I like pegging, adult nursing, orgasm control/denial. I think it sounds really hot to have regular PIV sex but not orgasm for a while.

Hard limits: pain, degradation, cuckolding/forced bi/nonmonogamy, bathroom stuff, choking. I don’t hurt people, I don’t want to be hurt.

Some ways I show I care: giving massages, and cooking for my partner, touching them in whatever way they like to make them feel good. Ideally we could take some massage classes together so I can learn to give you the best massages I can.

I always want to be open to reciprocating anything my partner will do for me. I’m into having my orgasms denied sometimes because it feels good, so if you want to switch sometimes and have me take care of you in the same way, I would love to do that for you. I also want to practice karezza sometimes with you, or mutually tease each other and try and drive each other crazy with horniness.

Some people view giving/receiving pain as a trust building exercise, but if you want to build trust with me, let’s go learn to fly helicopters together or learn to climb mountains together.

Why am I into femdom:

Firstly, I really like strong women, both physically and mentally; I want to meet the sort of person that would like to learn to fly helicopters or scuba dive or climb mountains with me.

Secondly, I’d like to be able to be vulnerable with my partner in this way.

Lastly, adult nursing is very erotic and intimate, and pegging and orgasm control/denial feel really good.