Hello, I'm a 23 year old agender often called Xandir (having problems with the flairs, which is why I wrote down M instead of NB since I am assigned male at birth(amab) ; any pronouns work for me). I am pretty masculine - 180 cm tall (5'11" iirc), pretty bulky and large. My hair is currently quite short, but I think I have on this account a picture of how long it was when I cut it for charity - it is pretty much black and quite dense. My skin is light brown (or a shade of deep tan) and I have brown eyes. I would love to chat about what makes a person passionate, what interests them and see how we get along. I am here since I want to explore my more submissive side, but I do love a nice talk, so feel free to reach out either way~

I am finishing my masters in Philosophy and enjoy maths, Monty Python, swimming, Lego, singing, musicals( songs with a deep voice, especially a lovely mezzo soprano or alto as a lead, sometimes do make me swoon - e.g. "Lady of the Underground" from Hadestown, "Last midnight" from Into the woods or "Bring on the men" from Jekyll and Hyde), and reading (mostly fantasy). I do love a nice conversation about what intrigues me and others and getting to know my friends and close ones better, but I also have sometimes a hard time opening up about stuff I struggle with... (Don't tell that fluffy orange fluffball of my cat, but I do find him super cute even if being taken hostage by his purring or sleeping self is a pain in the ass sometimes)

As for more intimate stuff, I am a switch looking to explore my more submissive side online and perhaps later in person, I have no experience in the latter, whereas some with the former for both subbing and domming. I do find myself more so into serving and making my partner feel good, enjoying hearing how they feel and doing my best to make them feel better. I do enjoy fantasising about group sex and find quite a few of my kinks all over the place (and not sure if I quite enjoy them as much as I thought I do, I have a kinklist that should be in my profile that serves as a good outline of my attitude when it comes to the fantasies of it I suppose). I do find body worship and service as rather intriguing and would love to explore further. I do not think I am a masochist, but I am open to looking into it to. I do find myself more drawn to a polyamorous or open relationship, though it is not a deal-breaker. Besides that I would love to hear about what you like in and out the bedroom and see if some of our kinks match.

Thank you for reading so far and I would love to hear from you! Hope you have a fabulous New Year's Eve and a happy new year full of fun in and out of the bedroom~

P.s. Do let me know if you would like to swap pictures.